I'm sure no one doesn't have to do much chasing at all.
i attract a very specific type. the type i attract does not look at me and think 'i wonder what his favourite book is?'.
shes already formed in her mind a preconceived notion about what im going to be like based on her past experiences with guys who look like me.
so when we talk eventually end up talking i fulfill the role of that stereotype for her and give her exactly what she wants.
pretty much all i have to do is not say anything stupid and its a done deal.
this has 2 benefits- it saves me having to talk to girls who dont find me attractive cause of my 'look', and i know what im getting myself into the moment i start the conversation. theres no 'ifs' or 'maybes' about it. it then goes down whatever path i chose it to.
the downfall is that they typically are not the type you take home to mom, or start a serious relationship with.
*in before ukbeth prattles on about how much this must suck and blah blah blah meanwhile wishing he wasnt shacked up with some old hag and wondering what id be like to bang even something on the lower end of my scale.
