LOL, yeah, where the woman does all the dirty work and she cannot say jack shit about her husband fucking everyone he wants because she's financially attached to him. Or about anything for that matter because she's 100% financially dependent on him.
FUCK YEAH, OLDSCHOOL RULESSS
For someone as smart as you, you'd think not to go to the extreme of things. There is a happy medium.
Another thing,Since you are new to this country, let me tell you something...the restraining orders...are a tool, just like a hammer is one. And both can be used as a weapon. Not just against a married man, but also against a boyfriend. And they can used to embarass or in the case of married couples to create a paper trail for the divorce precedings. These are civil orders, and if violated, depending on the state, can carry serious criminal consequences. So, one could in theory have a civil order of protection against them, and violate it, then have criminal charges, plus a custody or divorce hearing all going on at the same time. In different courts. This means more money spent on attorney fees, more time spent in court, and also possible jail time. Meanwhile, if one has kids, the kids suffer.
The judicial system tends to rape the man, for just being a man. And then expects said man to pick up the pieces of his life, and "deal with it"...meanwhile, his reputation has been dragged thru the mud (assuming he has done no wrong), his car can be effed up (if he got it when he was married, it's her's as well), house gone, and in some instances lose his job.
Sure, as you said one can do a prenup, but ask yourself, if you go in thinking pre-nup, why get married if there is no trust, one is automatically assuming that this will eventually end?