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Re: Marriage...oh brother
« Reply #250 on: August 26, 2014, 05:00:54 AM »
just a bunch of pathetic 2 legged weaklings who wouldnt last a minute against a lion, jaguar, elephant...

Me and my rifle would do quite well against them, thanks. Just think of it as my "teeth" in case you were planning on complaining about my use of tools. My alpha/apex predator brain evolved at the same time their teeth, claws and muscles evolved.

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Re: Marriage...oh brother
« Reply #251 on: August 26, 2014, 05:02:49 AM »
Me and my rifle would do quite well against them, thanks. Just think of it as my "teeth" in case you were planning on complaining about my use of tools. My alpha/apex predator brain evolved at the same time their teeth, claws and muscles evolved.

what do you do when you get naked out of the shower and lion is there?

where is your rifle when you need it

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« Reply #252 on: August 26, 2014, 05:39:57 AM »
Taken from another forum, what a fucking scam concept

"No Fault Divorce is the biggest slight against the institution of marriage there is.

A good friend of mine went through that. He was well off but at one point his work required more travel than usual. His wife "got lonely" started ****ing a "friend", "fell in love" and kicked him out. I say kicked him out because when he found out one angry but non threatening text ( I read it myself) was all it took to get an order of protection. In the divorce he lost his home (which he still pays for on court order), 30% of his take home, and equal amount of that to spousal support as she is unemployed, half his retirement accounts and other investments, everything they had in savings (he found out about the affair when she withdrew everything from their accounts) which the courts would do nothing about and every last dime he had or could borrow to hire a layer for himself and her (court order).

He lives in his old room at his parents house now. The other guy now lives in the home he pays for with his ex wife and children but they will not marry as that would cost her the spousal support. When he started pulling over time to try and set back some money to get a place so he could get overnight visitation with his kids she drug him back to court for more money. They awarded it and now that he has lost all overtime due to his job scaling back he has to spend what he saved going back to court to get the payments reduced to pre OT rates.

That's the risk. Is it worth it?"

I have been married and divorced more then once. I never had issues or problems like this dude, but wtf?
I'm over 50 now and remarried to a pretty woman who makes more then me. She's a VP for  major bank.
In my case, I never had kids and at my age now, that ship has sailed for good.

My advice is : 1. Marry a woman who has a good career    2. Never have kids.

'nuff said

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Re: Marriage...oh brother
« Reply #253 on: August 26, 2014, 05:49:41 AM »
I have been married and divorced more then once. I never had issues or problems like this dude, but wtf?
I'm over 50 now and remarried to a pretty woman who makes more then me. She's a VP for  major bank.
In my case, I never had kids and at my age now, that ship has sailed for good.

My advice is : 1. Marry a woman who has a good career    2. Never have kids.

'nuff said
Some couples want children.

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Re: Marriage...oh brother
« Reply #254 on: August 26, 2014, 05:54:16 AM »
a marriage without children

that is like the most pointless thing ever ::)

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« Reply #255 on: August 26, 2014, 06:15:59 AM »
what do you do when you get naked out of the shower and lion is there?

where is your rifle when you need it

So lions can travel to foreign lands and open doors now? See I have a "shelter" where I can sleep without having my rifle on my shoulder. That is another part of the alpha/apex predator brain.

Your lion metaphor is weak, my friend. You need a better proof-point.

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« Reply #256 on: August 26, 2014, 06:18:05 AM »
So lions can travel to foreign lands and open doors now? See I have a "shelter" where I can sleep without having my rifle on my shoulder. That is another part of the alpha/apex predator brain.

Your lion metaphor is weak, my friend. You need a better proof-point.
a lion can be anywhere any time if he so wishes

you are lucky he has no interest in your bathroom

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« Reply #257 on: August 26, 2014, 06:21:32 AM »
a marriage without children

that is like the most pointless thing ever ::)

Some people are meant to have kids and love being devoted parents.
Others , like me, never wanted kids, so I made sure to never father children.

Obviously, the world needs people to reproduce , BUT we need to stem the tide of uncontrolled population growth .
In summary, the world needs BOTH kinds of people for the world to thrive.

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« Reply #258 on: August 26, 2014, 06:26:29 AM »
Some couples want children.

I'm older then most who post here.
Most ( not all ) couples I know, say privately , that kids are marriage killers.
A guy I grew up with has been married for 30 years with adult children now.
He loves his kids and was an excellent dad.
BUT, a few years ago, he told me ; " Kids suck the life out of you."

He hasn't had much hot sex with his wife in many years.

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« Reply #259 on: August 26, 2014, 06:29:48 AM »
I'm older then most who post here.
Most ( not all ) couples I know, say privately , that kids are marriage killers.
A guy I grew up with has been married for 30 years with adult children now.
He loves his kids and was an excellent dad.
BUT, a few years ago, he told me ; " Kids suck the life out of you."

He hasn't had much hot sex with his wife in many years.
Children are work but they enrich your life.

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« Reply #260 on: August 26, 2014, 06:31:04 AM »
a lion can be anywhere any time if he so wishes

you are lucky he has no interest in your bathroom

There was a mountain lion in my neighborhood scaring the fuck out of the livestock and the dogs last year.

It got shot and is now rotting in a shallow lime-filled grave. So I guess you are right, they CAN be anywhere they want...they just don't think well.

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« Reply #261 on: August 26, 2014, 06:31:37 AM »
Children are work but they enrich your life.

For those who were "called" to have kids, I agree 100%.
For those like me and my wife, kids are : work, $$ and stress.

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« Reply #262 on: August 26, 2014, 06:33:04 AM »
There was a mountain lion in my neighborhood scaring the fuck out of the livestock and the dogs last year.

It got shot and is now rotting in a shallow lime-filled grave. So I guess you are right, they CAN be anywhere they want...they just don't think well.
if you're so tough why didn't you strangle it to death

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« Reply #263 on: August 26, 2014, 06:47:24 AM »
if you're so tough why didn't you strangle it to death

Why would I do that? I have never had a "fair fight" and I never will. Fighting fair is for fools and dead men.

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« Reply #264 on: August 26, 2014, 07:03:31 AM »


My advice is : 1. Marry a woman who has a good career    2. Never have kids.

'nuff said

First is an excellent advice, a lot more important than many think. Second is relative/depends on a person.

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« Reply #265 on: August 26, 2014, 07:05:53 AM »
I'm older then most who post here.
Most ( not all ) couples I know, say privately , that kids are marriage killers.
A guy I grew up with has been married for 30 years with adult children now.
He loves his kids and was an excellent dad.
BUT, a few years ago, he told me ; " Kids suck the life out of you."

He hasn't had much hot sex with his wife in many years.

Very often this is true too, unfortunately. I've heard lots of sad stuff from my married friends, and they've been married for a short time yet. I can easily see a bigger half of them going the divorce way 5-8 years down the road. It's very selfish.. kids are suffering the most and there's no excuse for that shit..

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« Reply #266 on: August 26, 2014, 07:07:35 AM »
Children are work but they enrich your life.

Shut the fuck up you whore. I wonder whether your bald pussy and tits on the interwebz will enrichen their lives when they'll grow up.

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« Reply #267 on: August 26, 2014, 07:21:33 AM »
First is an excellent advice, a lot more important than many think. Second is relative/depends on a person.

Thanks and despite the fairy tale some believe, marriage today is all about having a loving PARTNERSHIP.

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« Reply #268 on: August 26, 2014, 07:25:40 AM »
Very often this is true too, unfortunately. I've heard lots of sad stuff from my married friends, and they've been married for a short time yet. I can easily see a bigger half of them going the divorce way 5-8 years down the road. It's very selfish.. kids are suffering the most and there's no excuse for that shit..

Bingo - My wife's grandma told her ; " There are a lot more married, then happy ".

Having children within a loving marriage can be one the most rewarding things one can experience.
BUT, like all things worth having , it takes a ton of work and effort to do it right.

I knew I didn't want that responsibility and didn't feel the inner yearning to have kids.
So , I did the responsible thing, and never had any.

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Re: Marriage...oh brother
« Reply #269 on: August 26, 2014, 07:30:50 AM »
i cant stress enough how much happier i am since baby mama moved out and i kicked her shit to the street


my home is like an oasis of tranquility and a sanctuary of gains

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Re: Marriage...oh brother
« Reply #270 on: August 26, 2014, 07:33:51 AM »
nobody would

therefore humans should stop trying to be alpha

they have never been and never will


just a bunch of pathetic 2 legged weaklings who wouldnt last a minute against a lion, jaguar, elephant...

And yet, humans rule the world. 

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« Reply #271 on: August 26, 2014, 07:37:21 AM »
i cant stress enough how much happier i am since baby mama moved out and i kicked her shit to the street


my home is like an oasis of tranquility and a sanctuary of gains

Your memory of this time is somewhat distorted. How about the time she kicked your door in?

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« Reply #272 on: August 26, 2014, 07:39:05 AM »
i cant stress enough how much happier i am since baby mama moved out and i kicked her shit to the street


my home is like an oasis of tranquility and a sanctuary of gains

Did you father a child with her?

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Re: Marriage...oh brother
« Reply #273 on: August 26, 2014, 07:39:26 AM »
i cant stress enough how much happier i am since baby mama moved out and i kicked her shit to the street


my home is like an oasis of tranquility and a sanctuary of gains

Having a successful long term relationship comes down to who youre with and how you communicate.  Sixteen years with the same woman and I'm happier than I was when we first started dating.
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« Reply #274 on: August 26, 2014, 07:46:07 AM »
Your memory of this time is somewhat distorted. How about the time she kicked your door in?
that was the night she found all her stuff in front of her sisters house, where she was staying the days after she left me


they had gone clubbing and in the night came home to her sisters house and the side walk was LOADED with suitcases and garbage bags full of clothes and all her other stuff (so much stuff it took me twice to drive it over)


she went real furiously mad at this point and at 4 am arrived at my home with her sister and started trashing my door


i was consulting getbig on what to do during this time but most thought it was a jokes


she left after some time and returned with police telling them i kicked her and "her" son out

and police told her to fuck off (i think they were being racist to her but it was a good thing ffor me)