Sadly, I used to be a good friend of hers. And his. I am very saddened by this. I am not feeling sorry for someone who does this, and my heart goes out to the family. But I will tell you, this is the result of a life unraveled...so badly...so desperately...it is really really sad. She did not want to listen and did not heed the advice of people who loved her and saw her truth and vulnerabilities back in 1999. No one listens when they are determined to have someone or something. I think the need in her was so bad... the need to feel like he could have anyone and he "chose" her. It's very sad to think that she thought so little of herself, when in actuality, she was a truly beautiful, fun, bubbly, incredible person. She had issues to sort out, but she didn't leave herself enough time in which to do it.
I think these two are the result of the same kind of combination, chemically, as the two up in Toronto who married, drugged and raped her sister, strangled and raped other women and were finally prosecuted. Apart, she might never have done anything like that in her life. Together, it was like an A-Bomb. She followed and was enamored of everything he did and said. Same with Kelly. I am willing to bet that, while neither will turn on the other, this chemical combination is forever severed...forever broken. Their lives are ruined and they never thought it would happen. I kind of always knew it would. May sound easy to say in hindsight, and maybe it is. But, I think that this is one of life's saddest stories, all around, I have ever heard. I am forever sick knowing this. What a tragedy and waste for everyone involved. It's almost still unbelievable to me, despite knowing the volatility of both, each in their own way, extremely well