what are you advising me on the whole matter of my girlfriend running off with the baby
how should i proceed, according to the uberman principles
Shape her the way you want her to be and force her to do what you want from her with realism and patience. A woman wants to be controlled by her man. But do you have what it takes, do you want to control her? Now if you dont want her and think you can do better with someone else, she can feel it, and it will be pretty much impossible to invest in your relationship anymore. The problem is I doubt you ll ever be able to do better with anyone else so fix your shit first. Maybe you cant fix it cause you dont have what it takes. You talk a lot about muscles big cocks and steroids, but obviously she s the one leading and driving you insane in your relationship. Pretty tough to sort what's real from fake in everything you tell us on here but I think in the long term, it's a smarter investment to better what you already have instead of thinking you could have "better" somewhere else with someone else. In your sole and own interest you would want to do only what You want to do, but in the largest interest of society, mankind, the specie, you d better stick with her and kid. This is when morality and spirituality come into the debate and help control animal urges and channel them into harder but more satisfying endeavors. Think about what you ll leave, instead of thinking only about yourself. Now I know some women are tougher, smarter, more perverse than their men and obviously it sounds like you re the bitch in your couple. Maybe it's time to reverse things but do you have what it takes? It seems like you want to leave as much as she wants you to leave, none of you seem to want the whole thing to continue simply because you dont know how to make it continue and both fear the future. None of you seem to want to change each others either. The only required change isnt that hard, it's to allow each others to better yourselves instead of hurting yourselves. Talk frankly and tell each others what you like and dont like and grow up together.
Well that's life, nobody has all the right answers at the right time, and we re all pretty much dealing with what is thrown at our face the best we can with what we have. There is no "perfect" life down below. Satisfaction pride and peace only come thru difficulties. Stability only come from somewhat controlling chaos. No control, no order, no peace. Now there's control, and control. To find the best way to control yourself and others is what we re all trying to learn every single day.
