the marriages were shams.
how could a man maintain a healthy relationship, let alone a marriage, with a woman, when he's attracted to men?
wait... there's shmoes for women and men, I suppose.....
well, any man who wants to be dominated and worship a muscular woman, doesn't see himself as her equal... and she's not gonna see him as an equal. that's not what relationships are based on. can't have an alpha-female and beta-male.