so answer my question..what do you expect from the poor People?
I expect people to be responsible. If your receiving benefits for children you can't afford you should be required to be on birth control. If you contribute to your own health problems by smoking or being obese the cost of your carelessness should come out of your own pocket not the tax payers.
If you are a long term recipient of benefits you should be required to participate in some form of compensatory service in exchange for services rendered. There should be limitation on the duration a person can receive benefits and insurance subsidies.
That's just a start.