I doubt many on Getbig can offer much at all. Women are incapable of being true friends with a guy. Oh, they can for a while but sooner or later they will change the deal.
Guys can't be mates with ginas. Sorry, not possible. Sure, smart guys will behave as if they are friends but that is put on to get sex. Only smart gals know this.
Maybe in your generation Vincent.
One of my best friends is a smoking hot Filipina chick who split up with her husband at the same time I split up with my wife.
That was 10 years ago and since then we have been best of friends. Of course, the partners the two of us met after meeting thought it was a bit odd at first.
Bottom line - she's a good laugh as a mate but IMO she's a tough gal to have as a partner - I know this 'cause I know the guy that left her and of course me and my wife spend time with her and her husband. She's what I'd call 'hard work' - never with me - only with her partner. So fuck that.
There has been sexual tension between us, we have had some steamy discussions,I even brought her a 'rabbit' vibrator from Japan - but that's part of the fun. A bit of 'want' but no follow through.
After a few years of friendship, us fucking each other would have really ruined the friendship we had and the support that's always there if needed.
Some people can see past their cocks to seeing the benefit of having a friend of the same sex. It's no big deal.