all "men" want to be ripped. most women want a nice six pack
You need to stop hanging around with the same type of people. There is a world of diversity out there Johnny.
I work on a site with 7000 different people and live in close quarters with 5000. 85% of them men.
Let me tell you....75% don't give a FUCK how they look.....they just don't. They don't even think about it. They live to work, spend time with their families, party, have some laughs, etc.
There is a world outside of bodybuilding and fitness.....you need to explore it.
All vegetarians and vegans feel the need to announce their lifestyle choice to the rest of the world. They also feel the need to push it onto everybody else.
Chill out and go order a nice big juicy steak Johnny. You'll thank me for it.