Not according yo undermen. DA had no choice in the matter.
My point, is that He and his upbringings ("he" being a result of his upbringings) led him to where he is and how he will end, just like You and your upbringings will lead you to where and how you will end. As simple as that. How many of you steroid using clowns will sing a different song when you hit the 50s and for some reason one or several organs fail sooner than it should have because of your ab-use. I mean the board is literally filled with people who arent as extreme /insecure /vain as DA, but who will keep doing what they ve been doing to their bodies even after knowing what happened to him. History teaches many men, nothing.
I dont know what kind of bullying DA suffered from when a child, family or schoolmates, but it for sure was at the origin of it all; he had to be bigger, to be a bigger asshole, etc, that was "winning" to him (btw it's interesting to see how charlie sheen is "winning nowadays", in last news his sons with brooke mueller are physically molested, psychologically wounded by her, and he and denise richards abandon them and focus on the two daughters they had together instead, funny definition of "winning" at life i guess; it also proves his wish to have two submissive women do everything he wants from them completely failed) just like many of you clowns think you re "winning" parading with your fake muscles and confidence related to them but that will deflate with them when the time will come.
There are many people who ruin their lives, have tons of second chances, and do something of them or nothing, who take drugs, go to rehab centers, start new relationships etc, we all when facing a dead end, try to grab anything or anyone that could come by and stick to it/him/her if it's in his/her and our own shared interest to do so. And there are people who refuse to grab any opportunity anymore even if they could, dont seek any anymore, are just not interested in "playing the game of life" anymore, dont find a reassuring peaceful -bullshit- belief system that would allow them to carry on with life. These people give jobs to police, firemen, morgue and cemetary employees when they finally have enough. Nothing is created, nothing lost, everything is transformed, recycled right? Everyone's misfortune is someone else's luck. This is the reality of life. And all tales -and religions- are all about becoming the rich prince or princess that will have a better life than everyone else and we re all fed with it since childhood without "choosing it".