Using gym cafes for meeting married chicks while old man is at work 
yeah, ppl just dont get it.
was offered a job today from some female member in the gym.
best to not take it too serious if not competing for the olympia.lol.
in every gym theres these ppl,haha, were you wave to say hello, and they give you the sign"later,man, im fully into my training" haha oh brother.
theres countless times where i simply stopped a workout bc got into a talk with a woman.
priorities.
the supplement regiment will dictate how "big" one will be,when its all said and done.
and theres actualy ppl who judge a gyms hardcoreness(ob brother)by how heavy the dumbells there are.
what they gonna do with 200lbs dumbells?stare at them?roll them on the floor?
shoulder laterals?haha
military press?
ok realisticaly, maybe shrugs, maybe rows.
some monsters will maybe be able to bench them, coo.
all those can be done with plates on an olympic bar.
less risk of injury, too.
one can put so much chalk on their hands as they want, in the end the physique does the speaking.
i train my legs with 1 plate per side squats, it doesnt get more feminine than that, but uh,it works.