Na/aa mever worked for me, mostly because I didnt buy into their storyline and doom and gloom message.
that said - it does work for gettinf many people to stay sober for long periods, who otherwise wouldnt... and I think ita probably better that tjey be miserable, bitter human beings who are addicted to AA than miserable bitter human beings who are addicted to meth or heroin, out robbing, shooting, and generally being a menace to society.
I had yhe fortune to have a very strong family bond... thats pretty much the only thing that kept me from really going over the edge. Well, that and an extremely strong moral compass that wouldnt ever let me steal from someone, fuck them over, or generally be a piece of shit.
If it works for some people, who cares how much bullshit the message is? Half those people have literally no one outside of drugs that they can turn to, so at least NA/AA gives them something other than that bleak, sad lifestyle.
but me personally, I hated it. I felt like everyone was just there to bitch about rheir lives and my life was bad enough when I was using, o had no desire to wallow in it anymore than I already had.