With all respect to your dad, but you can't always please others, at least not when you want to become successful and happy. Accept reality, it doesn't work between you and the mother of jr.
Just go for a trip to Thailand, enjoy the weather (and more, lol!) and look for opportunities.
do you think my above strategy is a good one^^^^^^
the situation is :
*she lives in my place, the agreement of living together can just be cancelled by the lawyer i see tomorrow for 300 euro fee, she doesnt have to agree or cooperate
*we have a kid, likely it's mine, i remmeber the time it was conceived probably, will demand maybe DNA test?
*let her have the kid, since she will want that desperately
*pay for the kid what the judge decides monthly (shouldnt be much since my salary is shit)
and that would be that?
she has delusions that i will be forced to pay for their housing 'n shit because she's jobless, but a judge will say get a job to her