If you're talking about the Catholic teaching that opposes birth control, then I agree that teaching doesn't promote sex within the confines of marriage. By the same token, it is not an example of repression or fear of sex.
I'm talking about Christians who, on the basis on their beliefs, advocate against the use of birth control, whether that be in pill form, in condom form, in ring form and whathaveyou. The particular ideology doesn't concern me, in the sense that I don't care if the person who advocates against a woman's ability to be on the pill is a member of the Catholic Church or some backwater Protestant denomination in rural Alabama.
With that said, if you are so inclined we
can get into a debate about Martin Luther and his theology, the reformation, the schism between the Catholic and Orthodox churches, the various "Ecumenical" councils, and so on. You'll find that I am quite well versed in the history of your religion.
Promoting traditional marriage, which is what supporting sodomy laws are really all about, is promoting sex within the confines of (traditional) marriage. That entire paradigm is changing though. I've been saying for years that homosexual marriage was inevitable. I've also been saying that triad marriages are next. That is coming too.
Laws against sodomy are about promoting traditional marriage? You say this shit with a straight face?! How is getting a blowjob related to "traditional marriage"? How does it promote traditional marriage for the State to tell a wife "sorry, no sucking you on husband's dick!"
No, sodomy laws aren't about protecting traditional marriage - if they were, they would prohibit all sex between unmarried people; not just oral and anal sex as they do. Of course, we all know that would be
blatantly unconstitutional as neither the Federal Government nor the several states have the authority to regulate the private sexual conduct of
consenting adults, a fact that Courts have
repeatedly pointed out.
Sodomy laws are laws passed by people who believe that they should be able to use the power of the State to enforce their particular moral views and to legislate away sexual acts they find icky. Nothing more, nothing less.
Christian teachings do talk about sexual morality.
And Christians are free to follow those teachings, as they see fit.
And yes those teachings do bother some people.
You will forgive me for being bothered when your almighty God is concerned about my marital status vis–à–vis my sex life, and about how my girlfriend and I have sex.
But I have no problem with Christians or any other group using the legislative process to promote their ideas.
I don't either. Except when those ideas seek to curtail freedoms and outlaw behaviors and actions which the State doesn't have the authority to curtail or outlaw. The simple fact is that the Government has no authority to control my genitals or to dictate how I choose to use them.
If I support those ideas, I vote for them. If not, I vote against them.
There's more to consider - not just whether you support those ideas.
Also, if someone looks at the bigger picture objectively, we should be using public policy to promote what is best for society. How we get there is obviously the subject of debate, but the discussion is healthy.
What's "best" for society is, at best vague. Get any group of people together and I doubt you'll be able to come to a consensus about what's best for society. Having some "top-down" direction, where public policy guides people into something that's deemed "best" seems very dangerous to me.