This is going to be the gayest thing i have posted to date: What happens when you "bust a nut" without a nut to bust? Not trolling you, I just am trying to imagine what that must feel like. Do you still get the same sensation of cumming but without the goo spillage? Seems like it would be a frustrating sensation. Although my girlfriend would be much happier without the mess in her.
At first it was really weird. I wondered why bother, probably because I am a visual person and the visual was gone. A fellow in a group I belong to for guys who've had prostate cancer said that for him, his orgasms were more intense then before the prostatectomy. His wife nodded in agreement. I figured he was crazy or boasting. But now that is what has happened for me as well. I am not sure why this is, but I feel orgasms though my whole body and "the moment" is huge. I still miss the shoot and guess if I ever went into porn they've have to figure out a way to fake a "money shot" (just kidding about the porn thing).
One important thing my doctor advised was to be sure to empty my bladder before sex because some guys leak urine when they orgasm. I had that happen a couple of times at first, but I have been really diligent about regaining bladder muscle control, so it isn't a problem any longer. Not that it would be a big deal since it's all bodily fluids anyway. -Just seems a bit gross.
No doubt some folks will read this and wonder why bother with sex since your an old man anyway. Well, when you all get to be my age, tell me this. I'm not ready to give up sex just yet no matter what you think we grandpas should or shouldn't do.