Overrated . Mines large and it causes as much grieve as it does bragging rights. I've had girlfriends I've had to spend 10 minutes working it in and then watch her pull faces of pain, you couldn't go balls deep. Some women love it deep (some have tight narrow pussies, some shallow and wide). The wife is about right, she comes hard but is always in pain after sex and spends 10 minutes holding her stomach.