agreed.... money is the gift dude, what she chooses to do with it is her business. 
you are right...and to be fair I never said the double standard./my opinion is right, it's definitely not... I was just being  perfectly honest about how I felt. 
I have a grudge,  and I blame it on the fact that  I've never met a competitor/ person in the industry who wasn't a total piece of shit.  guy or girl...often Selfish, not appreciative, insecure, and fake. 90% of them..
big ro seems OK I guess....he could very well be that 10%