Speaking as a person who is mentally inclined to be a hermit, but instead has an insane amount of kids:
Who cares if chicks don't find you attractive, right? Isn't there something to be said for being single? Do we need romantic love to have a meaningful life, really?
If you need romance to be happy - stay single
I mean, the "romance" lies in the forbidden, the seduction, the courtship and the journeys.
But I get your drift. And I agree.