That would be one heck of a friend.
why? there is no risk involved at all, zero, all my friends take my packages (only a couple per year) and do not give 2 shits, these are law abiding citizens but they do not care because in reality they have no control over a package coming to there house, nobody does. in fact I can send you a package right now without you even knowing, so how is that a crime.
It is not and the worse that happens is the package gets thrown out and he gets a letter, big deal. This is how the game is played, I have observed this for A DECADE, i HAVE YET TO SEE ANYONE IN TEN YEARS GET NABBED ON ACCOUNT OF PERSONAL USE, AS FOR THE DRUG DEALERS, WELL FUCK IT, THEY ARE DEALING IT SO THEY DESERVE WHAT EVER HAPPENS.
I only order personal use and do not deal and I do not break the law at all, not even when it comes to taxes so why worry, over gear use, don't deal it and things should be OK in the long run.