why not.
id ask him"hey kid, all those steroids fine, but can you sexualy satisfy her or not"
thats it.
would however not accept a permabulko, bc their appearance pours-spills incompetence and the lack of abiltiy to lay the fork down, if one hasnt even got control over such banal issues, well, you know the rest.
as long shes happy who cares
whatd be worse if she brought home an unemplyed stoner asshole