Typical Getbigger insecurity lol 
You're all just a bunch of scared men
As someone else mentioned, everyone has fears and insecurities. Being a properly functioning adult is accepting that as a human being you will feel vulnerable at times.
Everyone gets scared, being brave enough to accept and share your vulnerabilities with others is integral to being able to experience emotional intimacy and I dare say it.....connection. The mutual acknowledgement that it is our weaknesses as well as our strengths which bind us as individuals.
The societal and media perception that a man needs to be fearless, emotionless, able to handle anything life throws at him...is...a...lie. One of the primary reasons that suicide is highest among young men is because of the social bravado that cripples men from expressing emotional vulnerability.
But go on, pretend that you're different, that you're not just projecting your own insecurities over the internet because the veil of anonymity gives you the capacity to momentarily delude yourself, that you, amongst the massive throngs of imperfect creature that occupy this planet, are peerless as the grandiose embodiment of everything society thinks a man should be.