You're the one who brought up your family, I didn't even know you had a kid or a girlfriend, you handsome* son of a gun 
*based on what you said
Its poor form to remark on someone's family. I can talk about them all day...you can't.
Regardless this has run its course, I dont do the 15 page back and forth with anonymous posters who think they are somehow better .......because they say so .
Feel free to get the last word in.