Regarding fornicating with a female.

[Parker]

I know this happens with most bros here. I'm not talking about with wives or girlfriends.

Is there anyway to combat the feeling you feel after you have sex with her and you just want her to leave or you want to leave. I haven't fornicated in a while but when I did, I remember having absolutely zero interest in the female when I was finished. A couple hours later, I was somewhat normal. Next day normal. I felt like a piece of shit and even guilty because I was not interested in a thing they said. It doesn't matter how hot or ugly the female was.

Have sex with someone that you actually have interest in...someone that you actually like beyond the physical.

[Wiggs]

Yes brother Wiggs.

I had women come to my place we get home pissed, have sex we sleep...I wake up at 6am barely light outside, and sit silently in bed listeninv to her breath peacefully in her sleep and I can't rest. I want her out of my place so I can sleep properly and eat my 6 egg whites and drink a coffee in my balcony staring at the London eye from afar....and I usually wake them up at 7am and make up an excuse....I have a house viewing as I'm buying a new house or a car or my brother is arriving from Spain today and needs picking up...you name it.

Sometimes if I really like the girl she might stay till 11am.

It's not assholeism, it's just you/us having an introvert moment, it's a common trait amongst long term single men. I can only socialise for limited hours then I need to be alone.

That is me spot on. Good post. Glad to see I'm not alone and this is normal. Still would like to overcome it.

[pedro01]

I know this happens with most bros here. I'm not talking about with wives or girlfriends.

Is there anyway to combat the feeling you feel after you have sex with her and you just want her to leave or you want to leave. I haven't fornicated in a while but when I did, I remember having absolutely zero interest in the female when I was finished. A couple hours later, I was somewhat normal. Next day normal. I felt like a piece of shit and even guilty because I was not interested in a thing they said. It doesn't matter how hot or ugly the female was.

Yes - don't ejaculate.

Either that or have your exit plan sorted out in advance.

[TEH boob]

That is me spot on. Good post. Glad to see I'm not alone and this is normal. Still would like to overcome it.

Why overcome it? Just find someone who is just like you, or who at least understands it

[Wiggs]

Have sex with someone that you actually have interest in...someone that you actually like beyond the physical.

Yes Brother Parker. That's why I cut myself off. It didn't feel right anymore doing what I was doing. I felt like I was getting over but my soul was paying for it.

[Wiggs]

I think honesty is the best policy. When I read your post about you wanting your next relationship to lead to marriage, I was about to jokingly advise you to tell someone that on the first date. Now, I think it might not be a bad idea to mention that early on (probably still not on the first date, though!). People get hurt when their expectations don't meet reality.....I think it's fair to say that people don't get hurt when their expectations DO get met.

lol. I've said that too early and scared women off. lol. Not a good feeling. lol

[The_Punisher]

I'll fuck any nice looking Broad on any given day, I've never fuck a married woman before and I don't intend to and never will.......even if she doesn't give a fuck about her marriage..... ....I just respect the sanctity of marriage

[Skorp1o]

Wiggs,

You can't change your character and personality...if you force it, it won't work...I tried, they ask me what's wrong, why are you quiet...etc because you are not being yourself and doing something outside of your comfort zone and then start a "you don't like me" sort of conversation which you don't want to have in your home on a wekend morning. I sleep mostly with white gullible euro chicks who are grateful they finally had sex with a guy who looks like their MTV idols when they grew up in the soviet era...youre in America, bitch can go ghetto angry at you and ruin your weekend.

When I meet a girl I really like, I don't get this and don't feel that way at all...however this has only happened twice in 10 years, just give you an idea as to how rare it is.

[The_Punisher]

What does fornicating mean 

The word derives from Latin, fornix meaning "arch", supposedly as a euphemism for "brothel".[

[the trainer]

After sex I just tell the girl that I have to go to sleep because I have to work early the next day and offer to call her a cab but I will call her tomorrow its that simple.

[_bruce_]

It's just sex.
There's love, sex and love & sex.
Why feel guilty - be honest, upfront and let loose.

[pedro01]

Yes Brother Parker. That's why I cut myself off. It didn't feel right anymore doing what I was doing. I felt like I was getting over but my soul was paying for it.

Your problem is fairly simple.

You don't seem to understand that women are probably waiting for you to fuck off after the event too.

Women LOVE sex - that's why they go back with you. They want a fuck. They want to cum.

You feeling guilty about sex is unnecessary.

You really think that every woman that you fuck wants you to hang around for hours or is desperate for a relationship?

Naaa man - they just want to get off, like you do. It's all good.

[Fortress]

The kind that tries to follow the teachings of the Holy Bible.

Well, the fact you're engaging in pre-marital sex is a huge indication you're failing quite miserably with your attempt.

And I almost always wanna instantly bail after I've blown my load, girlfriend or not. Other than being sexually attracted to them, what else do I have in common with some broad?

[Fortress]

It's not assholeism, it's just you/us having an introvert moment, it's a common trait amongst long term single men. I can only socialise for limited hours then I need to be alone.

Truer words have never been spoken. For me, at least.

[DanielPaul]

I know this happens with most bros here. I'm not talking about with wives or girlfriends.

Is there anyway to combat the feeling you feel after you have sex with her and you just want her to leave or you want to leave. I haven't fornicated in a while but when I did, I remember having absolutely zero interest in the female when I was finished. A couple hours later, I was somewhat normal. Next day normal. I felt like a piece of shit and even guilty because I was not interested in a thing they said. It doesn't matter how hot or ugly the female was.

wiggs that feeling you speak of is called accomplishment.  Enjoy it

[biff]

The kind that tries to follow the teachings of the Holy Bible.

then you should have said "lay with a woman"

in fac tthis is in the bible, i believe it was one of Davids sons? was infatuated with a girl, lay with her, and the bible says "he then felt a disgust for her which exceedeed his previous lust".  she wished to marry him to hide her shame, but he refused

edit: it was Amnon, lusting for his sister tamar http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Samuel+13

[LiftEaTsLeEpRePeAt]

I know this happens with most bros here. I'm not talking about with wives or girlfriends.

Is there anyway to combat the feeling you feel after you have sex with her and you just want her to leave or you want to leave. I haven't fornicated in a while but when I did, I remember having absolutely zero interest in the female when I was finished. A couple hours later, I was somewhat normal. Next day normal. I felt like a piece of shit and even guilty because I was not interested in a thing they said. It doesn't matter how hot or ugly the female was.

Its a black thing... you think OMG I just knocked this bitch up I better run before I have to pay SUPPORT 

[Pray_4_War]

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.

[The Ugly]

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.

And Moms.

[Eric2]

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uXNHTROcoSs

[SGT BARNES]

shit wiggs you suckered into religion too?  you truly are lost.

you really want to believe shit like adam and eve...that would make the entire human race children of incest...etc etc


grow up man

[Master Blaster]

I didn't read all the comments, but have you tried falling in love?

[Automation]

So long as you don't say, "i hate you, I need to leave." I think you'll be fine.

Reasons to leave:
Need to go to the gym
Need to make the post sex anabolic window
Need to wake up early for work tomorrow
Parent(s) need help at the house
Dog needs to be walked


Since you're a religious man, you probably feel some guilt afterwards if you're sexing someone you're not dating. So you probably feel the need to leave that "sinful" environment.

Missed the best one: Need to return some video tapes