one must pick more wisely than harrison ford picking the holy grail.
at least picking the wrong grail just kills you. The wrong woman is a lifetime of misery.
the right woman can bring one great joy, however.
I believe this to be true, sure, but as you say, a man must be
VERY choosy; and even being so, there's still the chance he's found himself just another psycho broad.
So success takes attention to detail and luck, luck, LUCK.