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No one...
« on: April 10, 2014, 03:49:04 PM »
... in your life by your mid 40's...? Would you freak out?

I know a few guys in that situation. Never wanted to get married or got married super young now divorced, no kids. Still clinging to the "party mode" and "beast mode" lifestyle but you can tell they're starting to get uneasy. Each "next cycle" discussion becomes more and more pathetic and talking with them about family just seems to make them uncomfortable.

Friend of mine turned 40 this weekend and he brought up the "growing old alone" subject. The wheels were definitely turning. Still parties with 20yos but you can tell it's awkward even being in great shape and looking young. Drives a douchey car which he thinks "shows the world his lifestyle"... lol.. then right in the middle of the discussion a 26yo girl pops in while holding my son and tell him "hey you're 40, right shouldn't you be a dad or something by now? What's the wait".... you could feel the burn  ;D.

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Aisha Tyler is a sad example. Always been promoting not having kids, "don't wanna bring a kid into this world blah blah"... then 41 hits and she's fucking dying to have a kid... fertility issues.


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Re: No one...
« Reply #1 on: April 10, 2014, 04:01:13 PM »
... in your life by your mid 40's...? Would you freak out?

I know a few guys in that situation. Never wanted to get married or got married super young now divorced, no kids. Still clinging to the "party mode" and "beast mode" lifestyle but you can tell they're starting to get uneasy. Each "next cycle" discussion becomes more and more pathetic and talking with them about family just seems to make them uncomfortable.

Friend of mine turned 40 this weekend and he brought up the "growing old alone" subject. The wheels were definitely turning. Still parties with 20yos but you can tell it's awkward even being in great shape and looking young. Drives a douchey car which he thinks "shows the world his lifestyle"... lol.. then right in the middle of the discussion a 26yo girl pops in while holding my son and tell him "hey you're 40, right shouldn't you be a dad or something by now? What's the wait".... you could feel the burn  ;D.

Cooled storied broed.


Aisha Tyler is a sad example. Always been promoting not having kids, "don't wanna bring a kid into this world blah blah"... then 41 hits and she's fucking dying to have a kid... fertility issues.




This isnt 1950 anymore, any guy in his forties or fifties with his shit together, single, money, athletic, no kids will have his pick on dating sites should he decide he wants to meet someone.

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Re: No one...
« Reply #2 on: April 10, 2014, 04:03:27 PM »
... in your life by your mid 40's...? Would you freak out?

I know a few guys in that situation. Never wanted to get married or got married super young now divorced, no kids. Still clinging to the "party mode" and "beast mode" lifestyle but you can tell they're starting to get uneasy. Each "next cycle" discussion becomes more and more pathetic and talking with them about family just seems to make them uncomfortable.

Friend of mine turned 40 this weekend and he brought up the "growing old alone" subject. The wheels were definitely turning. Still parties with 20yos but you can tell it's awkward even being in great shape and looking young. Drives a douchey car which he thinks "shows the world his lifestyle"... lol.. then right in the middle of the discussion a 26yo girl pops in while holding my son and tell him "hey you're 40, right shouldn't you be a dad or something by now? What's the wait".... you could feel the burn  ;D.

Cooled storied broed.


Aisha Tyler is a sad example. Always been promoting not having kids, "don't wanna bring a kid into this world blah blah"... then 41 hits and she's fucking dying to have a kid... fertility issues.



Slow day Alex?  No friends to hang out with, no women to stalk online?
I'm sure no one would love to trade places with you....an obese 40 year old friendless pathological liar who's married to the negro wife of someone he met online.

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Re: No one...
« Reply #3 on: April 10, 2014, 04:03:59 PM »
there is probably more happy people in no relationships then people in a relationship

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« Reply #4 on: April 10, 2014, 04:07:23 PM »
Rosi - you are evidently an out of shape guy with a fat wife and little shits for kids... But by god you aren't stuck miserable and having no one to keep you from sexing up the "26year olds"
Isn't it funny that the people who are so concerned with other peoples lives are the ones with the most fucked up lives.  Now go tell the little crumb crushers to keep quiet and tell that fat bitch to get you some dinner made !!!

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Re: No one...
« Reply #5 on: April 10, 2014, 04:07:34 PM »
there is probably more happy people in no relationships then people in a relationship
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Re: No one...
« Reply #6 on: April 10, 2014, 04:09:27 PM »
No one...... in your life by your mid 40's...?

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Re: No one...
« Reply #7 on: April 10, 2014, 04:17:13 PM »
no one`s got it made in the shade.

I bet he pulls mucho pussy,and could care less about getting married.

He also should start paying rent for the space he occupies in a few peoples minds.
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Re: No one...
« Reply #8 on: April 10, 2014, 04:20:05 PM »
there is probably more happy people in no relationships then people in a relationship

Maybe, no one should stay in a shitty relationship just for fear of being alone. On the other hand, must suck waking up alone at 50+, no kids, no family to share with.

Sound good on paper but if you haven't got the partying out of your system by 40, kinda odd and will be regretted later.

I got married pretty late by US standards but would never do it any different. Enjoying time with my wife, loving and laughing with our kid is worth more than anything in the world.


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Re: No one...
« Reply #9 on: April 10, 2014, 04:23:12 PM »
no one`s got it made in the shade.

He also should start paying rent for the space he occupies in a few peoples minds.
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Apparently he's in yours 'cause no one brought him up but you. Maybe you misread the posts?


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Re: No one...
« Reply #10 on: April 10, 2014, 04:24:10 PM »
Apparently he's in yours 'cause no one brought him up but you. Maybe you misread the posts?


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« Reply #11 on: April 10, 2014, 04:24:58 PM »
Im 32 and when I look into my future and see that I'm still single at 40. I think, motorcycles, boats, free time, no bills, banging some random single moms, doing whatever I want, going fishing all the time, breaking girls hearts.... Or I get married and have kids and trade in the bikes for a minivan and make sure I don't leave a dirty dish in the sink and have to jerk off to internet porn when the bitch wife finally falls asleep. Ya I'll stay single for now.

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« Reply #12 on: April 10, 2014, 04:29:22 PM »
Im 32 and when I look into my future and see that I'm still single at 40. I think, motorcycles, boats, free time, no bills, banging some random single moms, doing whatever I want, going fishing all the time, breaking girls hearts.... Or I get married and have kids and trade in the bikes for a minivan and make sure I don't leave a dirty dish in the sink and have to jerk off to internet porn when the bitch wife finally falls asleep. Ya I'll stay single for now.

LOL...

You know it's possible to have both right? The "myth of the married man" who bends over and drives a minivan... LOL... so pathetic...

"banging hot chicks" lol...

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« Reply #13 on: April 10, 2014, 04:37:35 PM »
Subtle dig at no one detected.

different strokes. Im happily familied up, I know many people who shouldnt ever have a family. They just wouldnt be happy.

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« Reply #14 on: April 10, 2014, 04:40:56 PM »
LOL...

You know it's possible to have both right? The "myth of the married man" who bends over and drives a minivan... LOL... so pathetic...

"banging hot chicks" lol...

I know only a lucky few who have both. I'm just saying staying single isn't so bad. I'm sure I'll bed down some day. But still I'd have a lot more money being single then having a wife and kids.

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Re: No one...
« Reply #15 on: April 10, 2014, 04:43:33 PM »
Im 32 and when I look into my future and see that I'm still single at 40. I think, motorcycles, boats, free time, no bills, banging some random single moms, doing whatever I want, going fishing all the time, breaking girls hearts.... Or I get married and have kids and trade in the bikes for a minivan and make sure I don't leave a dirty dish in the sink and have to jerk off to internet porn when the bitch wife finally falls asleep. Ya I'll stay single for now.




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Re: No one...
« Reply #16 on: April 10, 2014, 04:43:40 PM »
there is probably more happy people in no relationships then people in a relationship


I would dare say this is not true.


Lonely and Happy... kind of don't mix.


Who knows? Do a survey I guess...

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Re: No one...
« Reply #17 on: April 10, 2014, 04:45:06 PM »
I know only a lucky few who have both. I'm just saying staying single isn't so bad. I'm sure I'll bed down some day. But still I'd have a lot more money being single then having a wife and kids.

At 32 you've got some time. Personally I didn't really know wtf I wanted until I turned 35 lol. The kid thingy, wasn't too sure. Now I wish I would've done it before.

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« Reply #18 on: April 10, 2014, 04:48:02 PM »
LOL...

You know it's possible to have both right? The "myth of the married man" who bends over and drives a minivan... LOL... so pathetic...

"banging hot chicks" lol...

U sound like the kind of guy who says "yes ma'am" "no ma'am" and always asks permission from the wife just to go fishing with the bros

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Re: No one...
« Reply #19 on: April 10, 2014, 04:48:43 PM »
single, a loser,best friend is a vial of test and has no legs lol once his puppy leaves him he'll kill himself

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« Reply #20 on: April 10, 2014, 04:50:34 PM »

I would dare say this is not true.

Lonely and Happy... kind of don't mix.

Who knows? Do a survey I guess...

"banging hot chixxs and liftin' brah"... sounds cool at 30, easy to "side with", especially on here.

At 45-50, not so cool...  :-\

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« Reply #21 on: April 10, 2014, 04:55:56 PM »
Depends on what you want and if you find a good partner. I think it's in our genes to settle down.
There are genuine free roamers but in general a family is a foundation of life. If you're too late to make the change - sucks.
On a more positive note society's breaking down and the free for all is on... I think both sides carry a valid argument.
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« Reply #22 on: April 10, 2014, 05:01:14 PM »
U sound like the kind of guy who says "yes ma'am" "no ma'am" and always asks permission from the wife just to go fishing with the bros

Haha yes, gotta check with "the boss" first  :D

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« Reply #23 on: April 10, 2014, 10:57:59 PM »


i cant figure out if this thread is dedicated to me or not.

regardless, i can speak up for the over 40 and single guy.

it's like this. im single because i choose to be.

i like being alone, and the older i get, the more i like it. i like having my own schedule. doing what i want when i want. want to go to vegas for a weekend? done. want to go to playa and party for 10 days? done. i dont need to 'ask' anyone if i can go. i just go.

but thats not the whole reason. im a loner. i am a guy who literally is happiest alone. i live in the bush w two dogs. thats all the companionship i need or want. i have group of core friends some who are married, some who are not and i am equally comfortable in either situation as i respect their wives as much as i do them.

some people get married cause they dont want to grow old alone. im at my happiest walking thru the bush with my dogs in complete silence.

im not an unattractive guy. women like me. a lot. this makes it easier for me to stay single. unlike wolkfox whos never had sex, i dont feel the need to get married cause i dont know when the next time im getting laid is.

not to mention im watching relationships fall apart all around me- people in their late 30's moving into one bedroom appartments and starting over from scratch like they were fresh out of school. who wants to deal with that? i get the milk for free. i see no need to buy the cow.
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Re: No one...
« Reply #24 on: April 10, 2014, 11:02:19 PM »
Who seriously cares about what someone else's pursuit of happiness looks like  ???

Like....who cares ???