Lucky for me, I got my first sponsor. It's helping with half of my bodybuilding bills. I'm showing the growth he wants. He's seen me before at a freaky 285 so working back to that or bigger. Hit 259.5 last night. A sponsor or three may help.
I've done the club dancer gigs in women and men clubs. It is mostly fun, plus I do like the attention. Since the great recession, the tips aren't nearly as good. Give it a try - you need good muscled body (no twink), good looking, and shaved down (I hate doing that every five days).