A word of advice if I may from one dad to another, your child has more needs than most and your right it's not our business, you can tell he is on your mind a lot if people read between the lines. Make your life all about this child, if his mom is a loser you need to get custody, make every day a great one for him , you can still "get the girls" and strive to bodybuild but put his needs first and foremost. You will be so much happier with yourself and your life l promise, it worked for me. Also I ticking know primary captain is your gimmick fucker admit it 
i think his mom is best capable of taking care of him at this point
little baby with mother makes sense to me
yes she lazy as fuck and will never work a day in her life but that doesnt rly matter, she will live off the governmant tits and get a percentage of my income for the kid
as he's older he will need more guidance from mine side