Right here;
you hit 30 realize that your career is on a good path, your life is pretty much in order except for the giant gaping hole of someone to come home to every night. Someone who actually cares about you and does the kinda of gross shit that proves it night in and night out, will one of those girls pop your bacne? lick your asshole(not begrudgingly)? clean your shitstained boxers? mop up your vomit or make sure your lunch is always packed or that you're putting enough away in savings\401k. substance is a thing too
will one of those girls pop your bacne?I don't have backne, and I Accutane is more effective
shave your back?Exotic Moorish genes, no hairy back, even chest is hair free (no homo)
clean your shitstained boxers?N/A I only wear black/navy blue boxers
mop up your vomitI don't have a drink problem
or make sure your lunch is always packed I don't work in a steel factory, eitherway we have a restaurant like canteen and they make a kick ass thai chicken and rice.
But on another note, I see the point you're making, if I come across such girl and I happen to fall in love, then I will settle.
Falling in love, seems like an impossible mission to me, no matter how hot the girl looks like or nice, I enjoy their company, build some emotional rapport, get insane physical attraction but it all fades soon and I find myself wanting to sit in a cigar bar on my own and read a book and a week later I am embarking on a new adventure with a new girl.