The thing about benching weight- and all you good benchers know this - it is a commitment, and today a lot of people seem to lack this, they want the easy way out, that 'magic program" that will get them there etc...
225 seems ridiculous to most serious gym rats, but the serious gym rat takes for granted that everyone in the gym thinks like him .... not the case
What are the numbers for guys in their 30's, 40's, 50's benching 225, gotta be crazy low for sure, but also it probably isn't a top priority either
Big benchers get a certain respect in any gym, more so I think than a big squatter or dead lifter, when is the last time you heard " how much you squat or dead lift" ?