women are emotional creatures. when a guy does what is right for him, its automatically taken as slight to themselves, due to being hormonal and insecure.
typically i dont respond to those txts. then a few weeks later they will txt back and be sweetness and whatnot, their last tirade forgotten.
at this point i normally bang the shit out of them, and they are happy to have a relationship based on something physical, rather than needing to tie up my time and energy in another relationship that wont work.