As much as I try to not judge or hate gay people I just can't. Their obnoxious flaming personalities just annoy me. I was out for dinner the other night and the host was a flaming gay. He drove me nuts. His obnoxious laugh with the way he had his hand up in the air with a bent wrist swaying as he walked made me just want to punch him. Just a prototype gay. I assume even normal gays probably hate the ones with the flaming personalities.I assume the majority of gays blend in and we just don't know and that's fine. But the ones that purposely stand out and make a spectacle of themselves are just plain fucking annoying.
I don't necessarily have a problem with it.Not everyone aspires to be macho. And some of those flamboyant gay types have an air of confidence that is almost admirable (as someone suggested above).
Their is nothing admirable about it I hate to see men behaving like that.
Having an annoying personality is not exclusive to gay people. There are straight folks who can be irritating too. If you tend to be judgmental of others, you are more likely to be annoyed by other's behaviors and personalities. I find it crating when a restaurant server calls me honey even though I know they don't mean anything by it except to be friendly.
I don't care for men who assume pseudo-macho behavior. To me, they are trying too hard to convince others that they are real men. This applies to both gay and straight men because there are a lot of gay men that put on a show of being super masculine too.
I disagree a man should act like a man and a woman like a woman, even the animals know better, you dont see a male lion trying to act like a female.
You could argue that flamboyant gays are extremely self confident, just like me<<<They obviously do not care what others think.
