Teach us how to train our women, master
The part where i wrote it took tears and time said it all. After getting rejected too many times for asking blowjobs years ago I simply told her that i d go see somewhere else if she didnt want to satisfy my needs. We had huge arguments over it every two months or so until one day i said ok fuck it if you re not capable to do it it means you dont really "love" me. One (or two?) slaps slamming the door and leaving, punches in the walls also helped. See, nothing very original. She actually took a lot of pleasure submitting to violent threats and told me she enjoyed choking on my cock while being forced. I already told you guys about my philosophy here years ago; transform a good housewife /college sweetheart into your personal whore, it beats trying to transform a whore into a housewife.
As mentionned earlier, it took months, years, to make my point, and lot of consistency was needed cause some times she was tempted to run backward in her old ways, but i stood firm whatever her bullshit arguments, forced her until i didnt have to force her anymore and she started coming for it on her own without me having to ask. She understood my sexual needs were to be satisfied first and foremost, no discussion possible. The key point is; my nuts have to be emptied, period. Our sexual life is geared toward relaxation and not performance too, a very important point. We always take all our time to satisfy each others, which doesnt mean quickies are out of question. Sometimes i dont even feel the need for sex but she starts sucking on my limp dick until i get a boner, feeling asleep and awaking once in while. She even fell asleep on my cock one night and i just felt good and fell asleep too.
Needless to say, it required work like everything else in life. Now she perfectly understands how i function and adapted to it -notice, not the other way around- because that's how our couple and more largely Family works. I work, i stay, i give my best to her and our daughter, in return i get sexually satisfied, as simple as that. I wouldnt like to portray myself as someone i am not tho, i'm far from being perfect in every aspect of my existence but im just telling you guys how i managed to secure at least one aspect of it. I invest myself into our daughter education, i work, but everything else, finance, home, she s the one who manages. She s as important to me as i am to her, as we do our best to satisfy each others the ties become stronger and stronger and the desire to see if the grass isnt greener somewhere else erodes itself.
I also look pretty decent and been lifting since im 16 and got her into fitness and in better shape thru our relationship over the years, it t probably was decisive in how things turned out too, she calculated that it was a win win situation for all parties involved before she discovered she actually enjoyed being forced into submission in sex. She actually developed a craving after being forced enough times. Some kind of balance/equilibrium has been found that way and we almost never ever get into arguments again, and if we sometimes tease each others it never gets serious anymore. We know it's all going to be reset in bed while she swallows my loads. We know we re in it together until the end and that's just the way it is.
Our sexual life is not even over the edge shit, fucking and sucking seriously, compared to what other extremistic people might do. But that's how we both feel good, call it boring but at least it works, more often than not. As you get older, stability beats novelty. She has become so good at sucking my dick i wouldnt trade her for all the money in the world.
