Never in a million years do I think Tony wanted to kill the kid.
I'm 100% certain he wished to spit dirt all over him at best, and at worst, graze him with the car just a bit and knock him on his ass.
The kid died because he did an insanely stupid thing. But Tony did everything he could to create a dangerous situation too. IMO, they should quietly work out a "I'm taking 3 months off" period... not a suspend, but a cooling-off period. Tony really was a psycho, he really did use his fist, car, helmet, and anything else as a weapon. Most felt eventually he could kill someone, and while the kid did play a part, tony did accelerate, he did show no remorse, he did lawyer up, and he hasn't done much publicly to diffuse the matter. He could show sorrow in a press conference without admitting any kind of guilt. Show the world you're not a total psycho that can run over a kid then eat a steak-um and have a beer and plan for tomorrow's race.