true bro,ive been married 12 yrs now n ill get all horny looking at some chunky bitches ass in the gym, then i go home n dont get aroused like i did over the chunky broad when i see my wife, i hate to admit this but im always thinking about someother bitch when im fucking her,sometimes i think about her sister or some girl i saw walking in the supermarket,its just the way shit goes sometimes in life. shes prolly thinking about someother guy so i guess it evens out,lol, if we where able to read our wives/girlfreinds minds we would all b divorced or broken up cause they think dirtier stuff than we do n they r twice as sneaky