GENERATION NOTHINGNESS - DOMESTIC VIOLENCE EDITION.

[Skeeter]

I'll bet this girl is wild in the sack. 

[cart@@n]

Give the girl a break, she only cheated on him 8 times.

[muscleman-2013]

she bites his cock while he is asleep, dude wakes up in shock pushes her off him and she continues to attack him, the dude busts her in the face and flees the house. He is charged with assault and she is labelled the victim.

And you know these pigs will fuck up their fellow men with a smug smile on their faces, but if the pigs are faced with one tenth the danger will tazer or shoot 

[Parker]

Never Fear, the White Knight is here.  We know your spiel, man bad, woman good.  Look were sorry your Mum got beaten up and your father is a bastard, leaving you to hate your penis, but that doesn't translate into the reality of domestic abuse..

What about the men who suffer indefinitely because there is no one to ring, no system in place that even acknowledges the mental, emotional and physical abuse men regularly experience in intimate relationships.

Uh, no. That is not what I said.
You always take the extreme.
There are a lot men who take the abuse because they feel ashamed to go get help. Even when they do go get help, they often are hesitant, and even abrasive, because they feel that the person helping them has made up their minds about a man coming in for help. And what of domestic partners?
There is a system in place. Maybe not where you live. But in the US, in many states there are systems in place.

And no, my dad never hit my mother, I don't come from a family of domestic violence.
There are many differebt the different aspects  domestic violence. Observing thesocial dynamics of it is key. Many times the son repeats the same behavior pattern as the abuser. And in many cases the mother sides with her son when he beats up his girlfriend/wife.
And if the mother has a daughter, in many cases, the daughter picks an abuser as a boyfriend. This is due to the mother condoning the behavior, and both parents/adults condition the children. Particularly when the mother has successive partners who abuse her.


W

[Parker]

I'll bet this girl is wild in the sack. 

I was thinking the same thing.

[Radical Plato]

Uh, no. That is not what I said.
You always take the extreme.
There are a lot men who take the abuse because they feel ashamed to go get help. Even when they do go get help, they often are hesitant, and even abrasive, because they feel that the person helping them has made up their minds about a man coming in for help. And what of domestic partners?
There is a system in place. Maybe not where you live. But in the US, in many states there are systems in place.

And no, my dad never hit my mother, I don't come from a family of domestic violence.
There are many differebt the different aspects  domestic violence. Observing thesocial dynamics of it is key. Many times the son repeats the same behavior pattern as the abuser. And in many cases the mother sides with her son when he beats up his girlfriend/wife.
And if the mother has a daughter, in many cases, the daughter picks an abuser as a boyfriend. This is due to the mother condoning the behavior, and both parents/adults condition the children. Particularly when the mother has successive partners who abuse her.


W

You fail to see though how you always couch it in terms of the women are the victims and the men are the abusers.  Every example you give is about some poor woman who naively finds herself the unwitting victim of some barbarian man who without any provocation beats her.  In my experience, women are far and away more abusive than men in every aspect, physical, mental and emotional.  But it is invisible, ignored largely because feminism has brainwashed the population to paint men in terms of being bad and women as pure and innocent.  

Have you considered it is the other way around, that men choose abusive women because it was normalised by their own parents. The men who become abusers finally had enough of being tormented by abuse that isn't even acknowledged by the society they live in.  Abuse that for all intents and purposes is invisible, because females abusing males is considered justified and normal.  Have you ever considered that the majority of women who are abused are abusers themselves.

If a man abuses a woman, he is an ogre, if a woman abuses a man, she is justified and asserting herself.  In terms of which gender experiences the most violence, the most abuse and suffer more over the course of their lives, men's lot in life is far and away more violent, traumatic and unjust.  This is what makes modern feminism so offensive, they take a privileged position and still claim they are oppressed and unfairly treated.  A modern woman wouldn't last 5 minutes as a man, she would beg for the privilege of being a spoiled Western Woman once more.

[Parker]

You fail to see though how you always couch it in terms of the women are the victims and the men are the abusers.  Every example you give is about some poor woman who naively finds herself the unwitting victim of some barbarian man who without any provocation beats her.  In my experience, women are far and away more abusive than men in every aspect, physical, mental and emotional.  But it is invisible, ignored largely because feminism has brainwashed the population to paint men in terms of being bad and women as pure and innocent.  

Have you considered it is the other way around, that men choose abusive women because it was normalised by their own parents. The men who become abusers finally had enough of being tormented by abuse that isn't even acknowledged by the society they live in.  Abuse that for all intents and purposes is invisible, because females abusing males is considered justified and normal.  Have you ever considered that the majority of women who are abused are abusers themselves.

If a man abuses a woman, he is an ogre, if a woman abuses a man, she is justified and asserting herself.  In terms of which gender experiences the most violence, the most abuse and suffer more over the course of their lives, men's lot in life is far and away more violent, traumatic and unjust.  This is what makes modern feminism so offensive, they take a privileged position and still claim they are oppressed and unfairly treated.  A modern woman wouldn't last 5 minutes as a man, she would beg for the privilege of being a spoiled Western Woman once more.

Have you ever considered that some people may have to deal with these issues on a daily basis?
That just maybe, maybe I know what I am talking about? M/F, F/M, M/M, F/F abuse is wrong. Whether it be both parties, or one party.
It's like if you talk to a Ferrari mechanic, that mechanic knows about fixing Ferraris.

Why must you always have this extremist "Had enough" mentality?
What happened to you?

[Radical Plato]

Have you ever considered that some people may have to deal with these issues on a daily basis?
That just maybe, maybe I know what I am talking about? M/F, F/M, M/M, F/F abuse is wrong. Whether it be both parties, or one party.
It's like if you talk to a Ferrari mechanic, that mechanic knows about fixing Ferraris.

Why must you always have this extremist "Had enough" mentality?
What happened to you?

Have you ever considered your daily dealings with domestic violence has made you biased, as the every system itself is biased and prejudiced.  You only see one side of it, because that's the only side the system wants to deal with.  Because the systems paradigm is man bad, woman good, the system reflects those obviously false beliefs.

Personally, I thought it was you who was demonstrating extremist beliefs, clearly one sided and prejudiced and so far removed from reality as to be almost laughable.  

And your right, men have had enough of the lies and falsehoods, of lives being ruined by them, the family unit destroyed and an overt system of female privilege propped up by left wing extremists (feminists and white knighters)

[Nails]

[Twaddle]

[Parker]

Have you ever considered your daily dealings with domestic violence has made you biased, as the every system itself is biased and prejudiced.  You only see one side of it, because that's the only side the system wants to deal with.  Because the systems paradigm is man bad, woman good, the system reflects those obviously false beliefs.

Personally, I thought it was you who was demonstrating extremist beliefs, clearly one sided and prejudiced and so far removed from reality as to be almost laughable.  

And your right, men have had enough of the lies and falsehoods, of lives being ruined by them, the family unit destroyed and an overt system of female privilege propped up by left wing extremists (feminists and white knighters)

I don't just see one side, I see many. And that is all I will say.

[Uncle Junior]

Not one of you stupid fucks "Get It"....."feminism"...."domestic violence"..ha.....oh...boy....

This is all you need to know why the girl is acting up and why the guy is filming it. I KNOW trust me!

Watch this and you'll  finally "get it"!

End of thread.

[Rudee]

I remember when I was 16 my high school girlfriend, whom I had only been dating for a month or so, went off on a jealous rant when another girl came up to me at my locker and gave me a hug.   I was young and thought to myself "Gee, to be that jealous, she must really be into me".   Her jealousy flattered me.   And then her jealousy got worse.   I wished I would have nipped that in the butt early on, but I didn't.  After 2 years of dating, her jealousy was at the level where she would punch and kick and throw objects at me intentionally trying to hurt me.  But I was in love at the time.  We split up a year later.  A week after we split up my car was egged.  I knew it was her.  She ended up marrying a guy that was just like her Father.... a womanizing alcoholic.   

[Waller]

I've not read all posts so this isn't aimed at anyone in specific. But I see there's a sexism theme running through it.

It's something me and a colleague were discussing last night. And it winds us both up. In a lot of cases in western society women do have an upper hand. The law is bias toward women with regard to both sexual assault and physical violence and it's ridiculous. I've been groped (everywhere) , punched, spat on, kicked and bitten numerous times by women. But I'm just expected to be ok with it and carry on. And a lot of women don't see a problem with this behaviour.

Police officers once witnessed a woman punch me straight in the face, their response was to lead her away, let her go and forget about it. How would that have been were the roles reversed?

Some women like to preach about equal rights, but want to pick and choose where they apply.

[SF1900]

What about the instances that aren't reported? For instance, a battered woman who doesn't report the abuse to police, and then fights back. Or the fact that some men lie to cover up their abusive behavior. The "I called the police first" thing.


BTW, does anybody think that with the right man, "I do anything for you" and her attitude, she'd be good to go?

Ill play devils advocate:

What about all the men that dont report being abused out of shame? Number is probably high.

Listen, thats what the research shows. Of course there is room to improve research but thats the data.

[Parker]

Ill play devils advocate:

What about all the men that dont report being abused out of shame? Number is probably high.

Listen, thats what the research shows. Of course there is room to improve research but thats the data.

You are absolutely correct, and I failed to mention that as well. Even though alluded to it in another post.