YOU HAVE TO BECOME SOMEBODY ELSE FOR 30 SECONDS TO EARN THE RIGHT TO MAKE IT HOME TO YOUR FAMILY. SELF-DEFENSE IS VIOLENT. THE WHOLE SITUATION IS A VIOLENT SITUATION. EITHER YOU CAN UNDERSTAND THAT OR YOU CAN'T. BECAUSE THERE AIN'T NO SUCH THING AS EFFORTLESS SELF-DEFENSE. YOU HAVE GOT TO EARN THE RIGHT TO MAKE IT BACK HOME TO YOUR FAMILY.