I am reserving judgement because I know all too well that different people deal with loss in very, very different ways - straight on to facebook, drowning their sorrows, acting like nothing happened, becoming reclusive etc..
I will say this though, it does seem very strange that the child was immediately taken to a funeral home - there is usually a precursory report (even if cause of death is known) and some reasonable length of time at the hospital mortuary.