I didn't attack him
I asked him to stop using coded words and just use the word that he really wants to say
That is not an attack on him
For example, If I had said he was the ghetto slime or pointed out that until recently he lived in a ghetto that would have been an example of an ad hominem attack
Oh please, don't be a bitch about this. Yes you did attack him. Instead of addressing his points you attacked his character by accusing him of wanting to use a racial slur. Own that shit, bitch. Don't back peddle.
An ad hominem (Latin for "to the man" or "to the person"[1]), short for argumentum ad hominem, is a form of criticism directed at something about the person one is criticizing, rather than something (potentially, at least) independent of that person. When used inappropriately, it is a fallacy in which a claim or argument is dismissed on the basis of some irrelevant fact or supposition about the author or the person being criticized.[2] Ad hominem reasoning is not always fallacious, for example, when it relates to the credibility of statements of fact or when used in certain kinds of moral and practical reasoning.[3]