Author Topic: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?  (Read 22915 times)

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #75 on: September 27, 2014, 07:50:34 AM »
I love being married and love being a dad to my daughter.

Nothing better than being with and taking care of my girls.

If some consider that corny, miserable or both I honestly could care less.
Just out of curiosity,  if you love your family so much why do allow yourself to be a shameless glutton?  Shoveling down garbage food and ensuring your early demise?

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #76 on: September 27, 2014, 07:52:30 AM »
Divorce/Marriage % ratio

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #77 on: September 27, 2014, 07:54:46 AM »
have you considered rectifying the situation

you find yourself in

a girl friends might be the bump your life needs
A wonderful woman in anyone's life can only help my friend.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #78 on: September 27, 2014, 07:55:31 AM »
Been thru a really bad split yet I still believe in soul mates. I'm a hopeful romantic.

Love will keep us alive.  8)
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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #79 on: September 27, 2014, 07:55:45 AM »
My Parents separated after 44 years of marriage, they have never been happier. Many of their friends remain committed to utterly miserable marriages.  The thought of growing old in a miserable relationship should be dreaded far more than growing old alone.  I believe in the old truism "No company is better than bad company".  Being alone is a wonderful experience, I don't know why so many dread it.

You see this so often

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #80 on: September 27, 2014, 07:56:40 AM »
Been thru a really bad split yet I still believe in soul mates. I'm a hopeful romantic.

Love will keep us alive.  8)
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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #81 on: September 27, 2014, 07:57:51 AM »
Must be hard to find other Tongan Jews.

True love doesn't discriminate, brother  8)
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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #82 on: September 27, 2014, 07:58:46 AM »
True love doesn't discriminate, brother  8)
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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #83 on: September 27, 2014, 07:59:55 AM »
see the rates are low in republic of Ireland.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #84 on: September 27, 2014, 08:01:34 AM »
see the rates are low in republic of Ireland.
They are also low in Mexico.

Is it because of tradition? Do the Irish frown upon divorce bigro?

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #85 on: September 27, 2014, 08:04:20 AM »
yes they do because of our majority catholic culture.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #86 on: September 27, 2014, 08:06:27 AM »
It's been a few months. Happy?

Was there a place you were trying to take this?

Nothing to be ashamed of my fat friend,
One day you will find a nice obese girl with a beautiful heart who will cook and clean your house and give you all the affection your heart desires as well as flabby sweaty fat couple sex and your life will be complete

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #87 on: September 27, 2014, 08:08:16 AM »
yes they do because of our majority catholic culture.
Now it makes sense.

It seems that the intended sanctity of marriage is all but lost around most of the world.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #88 on: September 27, 2014, 08:09:31 AM »
Nothing to be ashamed of my fat friend,
One day you will find a nice obese girl with a beautiful heart who will cook and clean your house and give you all the affection your heart desires as well as flabby sweaty fat couple sex and your life will be complete
Lol!!! You guys would have me thinking that I am some obese hippo.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #89 on: September 27, 2014, 08:09:41 AM »
It's been a few months. Happy?

Was there a place you were trying to take this?

You do realize that's not normal right??? Couple MONTHS??? How are you not fucking miserable? I understand that not everyone has the same sex drive but come on man that's ridiculous.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #90 on: September 27, 2014, 08:11:33 AM »
You do realize that's not normal right??? Couple MONTHS??? How are you not fucking miserable? I understand that not everyone has the same sex drive but come on man that's ridiculous.

It's called a hand that knows what I like, and endless videos of beautiful women doing naughty things.

Who needs real women?  ;D

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #91 on: September 27, 2014, 08:14:02 AM »
I should correct myself. Shitzo's not an anal virgin... Only with women he is one.  :D


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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #92 on: September 27, 2014, 08:17:36 AM »
what exactly do you perceive to be the 'ramifications of marriage'?

for most people in long-term relationships, the goal is to be married. i don't think this has changed at all.

It's like that saying, "It's not the fall that kills you. It's the sudden stop."

The ramifications are what happens if things don't work out.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #93 on: September 27, 2014, 08:17:49 AM »
I love being married. Love my wife, she loves me. I have a beautiful healthy daughter that have given us a beautiful healthy granddaughter. I have someone I can confide in, trust and love. I traveled for work the last 2 weeks and she put I love you cards in my suitcase both weeks and I sent her roses to her work.

Yea it is real terrible.  ::) I know for some it is but you haven't had a girlfriend since.......oh wait, nevermind. Don't condemn something you know absolutely nothing about. You may consider it an opinion but in reality it just shows ignorance.

Awesome.  You are blessed and even better I suspect you know it and are grateful.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #94 on: September 27, 2014, 08:46:11 AM »
Living the dream, brother. 8)

There are days where it is a dream and some that would consider be a nightmare. But the dreams outweigh the nightmares. Having someone like her stand by my hospital bed through 5 major surgeries, cancer, and now polycythemia (blood disorder)...well you cannot put a price on that. We went through a long period where we kinda took things for granted. I felt myself thinking about getting out. But nervously one night I sat her down and we had a heart wrenching talk. I think we are stronger now than ever. 27 years married and 30 years together. She is such a cool, beautiful woman and can pin test with the best of them.  ;)
The best advice I can give is wait as long as you can, fuck as many sluts as you can, party with the boys as much as you can so you won't have any regrets. Then when you feel you can really put the work in that it takes for a marriage to work, it is time. Then hopefully she doesn't fuck your best friend a week after the ceremony. Lol

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #95 on: September 27, 2014, 08:53:00 AM »
There are days where it is a dream and some that would consider be a nightmare. But the dreams outweigh the nightmares. Having someone like her stand by my hospital bed through 5 major surgeries, cancer, and now polycythemia (blood disorder)...well you cannot put a price on that. We went through a long period where we kinda took things for granted. I felt myself thinking about getting out. But nervously one night I sat her down and we had a heart wrenching talk. I think we are stronger now than ever. 27 years married and 30 years together. She is such a cool, beautiful woman and can pin test with the best of them.  ;)
The best advice I can give is wait as long as you can, fuck as many sluts as you can, party with the boys as much as you can so you won't have any regrets. Then when you feel you can really put the work in that it takes for a marriage to work, it is time. Then hopefully she doesn't fuck your best friend a week after the ceremony. Lol
Great post.
Hope you get well.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #96 on: September 27, 2014, 08:54:17 AM »
You do realize that's not normal right??? Couple MONTHS??? How are you not fucking miserable? I understand that not everyone has the same sex drive but come on man that's ridiculous.


He is an alcoholic. He has no sex drive.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #97 on: September 27, 2014, 08:56:31 AM »
You do realize that's not normal right??? Couple MONTHS??? How are you not fucking miserable? I understand that not everyone has the same sex drive but come on man that's ridiculous.

i did not have sex since 14 september


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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #98 on: September 27, 2014, 08:58:38 AM »
He is an alcoholic. He has no sex drive.

this

he is turning asexual

a low testosterone estrogen filled blob

he can still reverse this

but probably doesnt have the mental strength
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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #99 on: September 27, 2014, 09:11:36 AM »
Who said life is about being happy?  Sounds like some hippy ideology to me. What we see on here (GETBIG) is the way people have always been, they just haven't had the medium to express themselves as freely as what the Internet has provided. I think it reduces people's stress to be able to freely express themselves, rather than having to repress or deny their true thoughts and feelings.  People from the past lived shitty quality of lives, just working day and night to provide the basics, people today have that burden somewhat reduced.  I don't think people get pissed off at different views, just ones that they think cause unnecessary suffering.  Like I don't care if someone holds some banal view that doesn't affect me (like aliens exist), but if someone holds a view and it is held by enough people that it causes suffering in my life, then yeah, people get pissed of at such views.(like if a man defends himself against an attacking woman he is still the criminal and she is the victim)
Life is not about being happy, or a constant state of it---which is what people today seek. Yet, they are miserable because what they seek is within them, not external....
Life is about living, the ups and downs, sunshine and rain. You have to take it all. But, people seems so damn miserable, mired in loneliness and dispare.

People today still pick shitty lives, and do so because they "have a right to", and at the same time want everybody else to accept it. In today's world, everybody wants to be accepted, loved, liked. They seek it yearn for it. But, the reality is, it cannot happen, and I believe that is the partial cause for people being miserable. Miserable that deep down, they are not accepted. And then they form groups, groups of "unaccepted" people. And as these groups get bigger, there are people within them that feel "unaccepted", and this more misery.

Hell look at the subgroup called "bodybuilders" and their enthusiasts. What can we gauge from looking at ourselves?