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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #175 on: September 28, 2014, 01:32:06 AM »

this is so true


this is what i miss about having baby mama in the house, i could just fuck her when i wanted


going to prostitutes is the easiest solution but it's still a hastly, since i have to drive 30-40 minutes to get to red lights district which is not worth it anymor and also it's sex with a condom which is useless anyway


yes to have a woman in the house does have that one big advantage, you can fuck her anytime you want when you happen to be horny with a hard dick, no need to make it a project

I dont know how it works in your neck of the woods but over here she usually has to want to do it as well for it to be legal.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #176 on: September 28, 2014, 01:35:26 AM »
I dont know how it works in your neck of the woods but over here she usually has to want to do it as well for it to be legal.
i hear this from a lot of people

but in these 7-8 years not once she said no


well she said no sometimes but she never meant it, like when i just bear hug her from behind and dragged her to the bed while convincing her she would always let me


one woman told me this is actually what a woman wants, her man basically raping her while she is in the middle of cooking/cleaning



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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #177 on: September 28, 2014, 02:16:04 AM »
I don't know enough gay couples to determine if infidelity is more of an issue with them. The few I know, I haven't asked because their personal life is none of my business. Historically, gay men in relationships, whether deserved or not, have a reputation for cheating on their partners. Folks also believe men are more likely to cheat then than women. Some studies have reported otherwise.

Kinda toolish, huh?

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #178 on: September 28, 2014, 02:18:54 AM »
she never went down on you Halo why do you still remorse her absence.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #179 on: September 28, 2014, 02:34:56 AM »
I personally hate the whole 'dating' thing as well as other forms of picking up chicks.

I left the UK 17 or so years ago at 27 and became somewhat of a 'novelty' wherever i went. Has to be said that getting into a womans knickers is a boring and repetitive task involving telling them what they want to hear and listening to their shite.

I've fucked girls i didn't like much because i'd already put in some effort, saw the end game in sight and decided it less effort to just ride this one out.

Then of course, it's pot luck as to whether the chick is a dud fuck or not.

Even when i got to Thailand, the whole p4p thing got tiresome too. All that "what your name? Where you flom?" bollocks you have to go through in the bars.

Getting laid just gets tiresome after a while. At 44 i am glad i no longer have to deal with all that nonsense when i am in the mood.

we all get sick of that shit

pity we are controlled by our dicks

most men will put up with almost anything to bag that first fuck with a hot chick
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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #180 on: September 28, 2014, 02:37:37 AM »
we all get sick of that shit

pity we are controlled by our dicks

most men will put up with almost anything to bag that first fuck with a hot chick
if they keep coming back?

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #181 on: September 28, 2014, 03:30:33 AM »
I dont know how it works in your neck of the woods but over here she usually has to want to do it as well for it to be legal.

Lol, this. Like a married guy can just roll his mindless wife on her back and use her like a f*ck doll whenever he pleases.

Many married guys end up jerking off because that is more enjoyable than looking into your wife's dead-eyes as she lays there waiting for you to finish.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #182 on: September 28, 2014, 04:12:33 AM »
Lol, this. Like a married guy can just roll his mindless wife on her back and use her like a f*ck doll whenever he pleases.

Many married guys end up jerking off because that is more enjoyable than looking into your wife's dead-eyes as she lays there waiting for you to finish.
this is halo we are talking about. Lack of communication and halo go together like Ronnie Coleman and biceps.

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« Reply #183 on: September 28, 2014, 04:19:11 AM »
Lol, this. Like a married guy can just roll his mindless wife on her back and use her like a f*ck doll whenever he pleases.

Many married guys end up jerking off because that is more enjoyable than looking into your wife's dead-eyes as she lays there waiting for you to finish.

I am sure some couplings end up this way. Women do have a sexual appetite. You speak like only men get the urge.

That says more about you than it does about them

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #184 on: September 28, 2014, 08:03:32 AM »

this is so true


this is what i miss about having baby mama in the house, i could just fuck her when i wanted


going to prostitutes is the easiest solution but it's still a hastly, since i have to drive 30-40 minutes to get to red lights district which is not worth it anymor and also it's sex with a condom which is useless anyway


yes to have a woman in the house does have that one big advantage, you can fuck her anytime you want when you happen to be horny with a hard dick, no need to make it a project

Can't imagine having "supernatural" levels of test flowing thru me - I'm already a horn dog as it is. Definitely need to find a girlfriend before I decide to hop on.
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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #185 on: September 28, 2014, 08:18:18 AM »
baby mama was angry i didnt want to marriage her

i told her if we are going to marriage then it has to be in a way that you cant get my property etc after divorce

she was always angry for this

and in the end it was a big factor in the breakup i think



marriage has not a good distribution of risks and responsibilities between both parties, there fore i do not consider it

In my opinion , here are the main problems within marriage :
1. Having kids = work, $$ and stress. I never had kids.
2. Thinking it must be for LIFE. WTF? Even a murderer gets a shot at parole.
It's best when viewed as a loving partnership. If drastic change occurs, move on with dignity.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #186 on: September 28, 2014, 08:24:44 AM »
He just tells chicks he has over 20,000 posts on getbig and the panties drop.

LOL, hall of fame getbig, classic zinger. THAT was very funny ;D ;D ;D

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #187 on: September 28, 2014, 08:26:53 AM »
I love being married and love being a dad to my daughter.

Nothing better than being with and taking care of my girls.

If some consider that corny, miserable or both I honestly could care less.

Same here.  Love my son and new born daughter more than life itself.  Find the right woman and it makes your life even better.  Wife is best friend and I love being a positive role model to my kids.


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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #188 on: September 28, 2014, 08:29:08 AM »
shitzo is a Virgin.


Interesting, because if he's a virgin you're the exact opposite.

He's never has sex and you'll lick a dude's asshole  if he says you're pretty

and let him fart in your mouth so your cheeks expand like a squirrel with a mouthful of nuts




but that's another story

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #189 on: September 28, 2014, 08:30:38 AM »
I would say that you are correct for the greater number of marriages out there.  It may be sad but I think your words are true.  I still think Robin Williams took his own life because the women took everything else from him.

He took his own life because of a mental illness.  He had multi-millions.  Wasn't broke at all.  Drugs and cocaine and booze screwed up his brain and critical thinking. Really had nothing to do with paying his ex-wives.  There was lots of money to go around.  Was a combination of things, Parkinson's, not getting starring roles, failure of his TV show and  a damaged brain from drugs/alcohol.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #190 on: September 28, 2014, 08:30:49 AM »

I understand that there are some great marriages out there, but the divorce rate is at 50% or above, and that does not count all of the couples that just "exist" either for the kids or to keep the illusion of being happy.

Marriage is just another idea taken from religion.

Yup, most people have an out dated view of marriage based on some centuries old , religious values. Make your own rules!

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« Reply #191 on: September 28, 2014, 08:38:24 AM »
He took his own life because of a mental illness.  He had multi-millions.  Wasn't broke at all.  Drugs and cocaine and booze screwed up his brain and critical thinking. Really had nothing to do with paying his ex-wives.  There was lots of money to go around.  Was a combination of things, Parkinson's, not getting starring roles, failure of his TV show and  a damaged brain from drugs/alcohol.

Its true that he screwed himself up but the women in his life (and their scumbag attorneys and Kommifornia divorce courts) screwed him out of his livelihood.  I think he took his life because they took everything else and in reality perhaps his current wife was preparing to take even more from her "best friend."


Drugs suck and again I agree that he destroyed his mind with them.  I despise such crap but I also loathe how men in general are treated as a woman's personal trust fund in court.  We shall have to agree to disagree on a few points.  Not a problem.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #192 on: September 28, 2014, 09:12:00 AM »
Can't imagine having "supernatural" levels of test flowing thru me cause I'm the biggest dork you'll ever meet. I'm already a horn dog and have sex with my blow up doll 3x a day. Definitely need to find a girlfriend because my family and my one friend already think I'm a faggat.


edited for accuracy, pansy.
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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #193 on: September 28, 2014, 09:36:56 AM »
Yup, most people have an out dated view of marriage based on some centuries old , religious values. Make your own rules!
Howard, you may want to stay out of this....

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #194 on: September 28, 2014, 12:48:22 PM »
she never went down on you Halo why do you still remorse her absence.
last time we had sex on my birthday in february she actually did


it was the best sex i ever had


she was on top in 69 sucking my dick she was amazing at it and i was licking her golden pussy untill she orgasm then i fuck her raw no pulling out


typing this actually gave me serious erection


other women dont really excite me so much for sex  ???

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #195 on: September 28, 2014, 12:51:57 PM »
today i had to attend a horrifyingly boring family party


on the way home i took direction to red light district

but i was fighting with my self several minutes and decided not to go

because i hate working and so i should not blow money on them whores


but the other part makes me think you only live once and should enjoy good whores


hmm

so much conflicts in my brain

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #196 on: September 28, 2014, 01:23:44 PM »
i hear this from a lot of people

but in these 7-8 years not once she said no


well she said no sometimes but she never meant it, like when i just bear hug her from behind and dragged her to the bed while convincing her she would always let me


one woman told me this is actually what a woman wants, her man basically raping her while she is in the middle of cooking/cleaning




Or it could be that it was just what this one woman wanted. While there are undoubtedly many women who enjoy being a conquest, not all women want this.

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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #197 on: September 28, 2014, 06:36:52 PM »
I remember splitting up with my now wife.

Over some small shit. One night I got some chick back to my place at about 11pm, after taking her for dinner second date, didn't get my hole on the first date. You know how it is "I'll just stay for a short while" then "I'll stay  but in the spare room" then "Ok, your bed but give me some clothes to wear".. etc. etc. etc.. so I ended up finally getting into bed with this chick at 3:30am and then she grabbed my dick. To be honest, at that point I was barely interested. It ended up being shitty sex.

The next morning I drove down to where my now wife lived, made up, whisked her to a hotel and fucked her brutally on the balcony and that sex was FANTASTIC.

So fuck dating.


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« Reply #198 on: September 28, 2014, 06:38:59 PM »
I remember splitting up with my now wife.

Over some small shit. One night I got some chick back to my place at about 11pm, after taking her for dinner second date, didn't get my hole on the first date. You know how it is "I'll just stay for a short while" then "I'll stay  but in the spare room" then "Ok, your bed but give me some clothes to wear".. etc. etc. etc.. so I ended up finally getting into bed with this chick at 3:30am and then she grabbed my dick. To be honest, at that point I was barely interested. It ended up being shitty sex.

The next morning I drove down to where my now wife lived, made up, whisked her to a hotel and fucked her brutally on the balcony and that sex was FANTASTIC.

So fuck dating.



How long were you split before you had sex with someone else?

I wonder if your wife was with other men during that time.
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Re: Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?
« Reply #199 on: September 28, 2014, 06:42:58 PM »
So for me, here's the breakdown.

10 years together.
4-5 months initially just as fuck buddies - in a non exclusive relationship - I was recently divorced, on test and not interested in a relationship (like a dog with 2 dicks basically)
Then something more serious when I lost interest in fucking other girls
We've been living together for 9 years
Had a daughter for almost 5 years
Got a house together 3 years ago

We have been married for a year and a half.

I would say that to some extent marriage is dated. I was basically well committed both emotionally and legally by the time we got married. In fact, the only reason we got married is 'cause she asked me too and she wanted the whole 'wedding' thing.

So we did that. We didn't sign any official marriage certificate but that's fairly normal in Thailand for married people to not do the legal side.  Hardly makes any difference anyway.

So I am married and happy - but I think I did it the right way round. I think getting married after 1-2 years relationship is very tricky.