Are people finally waking up to the ramifications of marriage?

[pedro01]

How long were you split before you had sex with someone else?

I wonder if your wife was with other men during that time.

Me? Less than a week - we were not married at that point, it was early on and the relationship was 'tumultuous'

I never asked if she was with other men during that time. Not my business.

She does know I was with other women. She never let's me forget that but it's mostly good natured piss-taking than anything else.

So if she goes to stay with her mom for a week, she'll fuck me mercilessly the night before and ask me "Can you hold out for a whole week this time?"

[SF1900]

Me? Less than a week - we were not married at that point, it was early on and the relationship was 'tumultuous'

I never asked if she was with other men during that time. Not my business.

She does know I was with other women. She never let's me forget that but it's mostly good natured piss-taking than anything else.

So if she goes to stay with her mom for a week, she'll fuck me mercilessly the night before and ask me "Can you hold out for a whole week this time?"

Looks like she is still holding onto some resentment.

[pedro01]

Looks like she is still holding onto some resentment.

Nope - she's just a brutal piss taker. We both are.

[SF1900]

Nope - she's just a brutal piss taker. We both are.

You really think so? Im always under the assumption that the language we use is to articulate something very within us, even if its just a "joke" or "sarcasm."

[pedro01]

You really think so? Im always under the assumption that the language we use is to articulate something very within us, even if its just a "joke" or "sarcasm."

Yes - I would say that after 10 years, I know her much better than you do.

[SF1900]

Yes - I would say that after 10 years, I know her much better than you do.

Eh, length of time does not mean anything. There are people who are married for 30 years who still keep secrets from their spouse. People who have affairs for decades. Length of time means nothing. Its more about the quality of the time that matters, as opposed to the length.

[Primemuscle]

Eh, length of time does not mean anything. There are people who are married for 30 years who still keep secrets from their spouse. People who have affairs for decades. Length of time means nothing. Its more about the quality of the time that matters, as opposed to the length.

In general, I believe keeping secrets in a relationship creates barriers in communication and trust. With this in mind, I also believe there is no reason to burden your partner with information that could be hurtful to them.

[pedro01]

Eh, length of time does not mean anything. There are people who are married for 30 years who still keep secrets from their spouse. People who have affairs for decades. Length of time means nothing. Its more about the quality of the time that matters, as opposed to the length.

lol...

So let me get this right. You know my wife better than I do?

Really?

[SF1900]

lol...

So let me get this right. You know my wife better than I do?

Really?

Nope, I am not saying that at all. I made a general statement that in any marriage (or any relationship for that matter) quality (connection, intimacy) is more important than quantity (how many years you have known the person for) in terms of truly knowing someone.

[pedro01]

Nope, I am not saying that at all. I made a general statement that in any marriage (or any relationship for that matter) quality (connection, intimacy) is more important than quantity (how many years you have known the person for) in terms of truly knowing someone.

OK - then trust me, I know my wife way better than you do and if she has a problem, she'll just come out and tell me about it.

[SF1900]

OK - then trust me, I know my wife way better than you do and if she has a problem, she'll just come out and tell me about it.

I never said you didn't. 

[anabolichalo]

SF is releasing his insecurities on pedros marriage


awkward

[SF1900]

SF is releasing his insecurities on pedros marriage


awkward

Replace "insecurity" with "care." 

[anabolichalo]

Replace "insecurity" with "care." 

haha yes i know what you're saying

but he is already marriaged anyway

we can only be here for him if it should ever fall apart (lets hope it never does )

[SF1900]

haha yes i know what you're saying

but he is already marriaged anyway

we can only be here for him if it should ever fall apart (lets hope it never does )

Yes, I would not want to see Pedros marriage fail. If it did, I would offer him a shoulder to cry on.

[Tapeworm]

Frequent ramification is the key to a happy marriage.

[anabolichalo]

i have boners all the day at work today and thinking of baby mama's pussy


it was a bad idea to cut finasteride from 5m to 2.5mg

[Army of One]

i have boners all the day at work today and thinking of baby mama's pussy


it was a bad idea to cut finasteride from 5m to 2.5mg

Is there any general rule on how much fin to take for amount of test?Like how much for 250mg etc.Thinking about doing low dose test, currently take fin 0.6mg per day,What dose would you advise for 250mg a week?

[anabolichalo]

Is there any general rule on how much fin to take for amount of test?Like how much for 250mg etc.Thinking about doing low dose test, currently take fin 0.6mg per day,What dose would you advise for 250mg a week?

see my posts on this in the hairloss thread, welll copy paste from my hairloss guru


he says generally no need for more than 2,5 even for up to 3g test


5mg can thicken it somewhat he speculated

beyond that would be a waste

[Army of One]

see my posts on this in the hairloss thread, welll copy paste from my hairloss guru


he says generally no need for more than 2,5 even for up to 3g test


5mg can thicken it somewhat he speculated

beyond that would be a waste

So 0.6 would be fine for 250mg a week?

[anabolichalo]

So 0.6 would be fine for 250mg a week?

1mg is the prescribed dose for naturals withhairloss

so no

try double

[BIG ACH]

So for me, here's the breakdown.

10 years together.
4-5 months initially just as fuck buddies - in a non exclusive relationship - I was recently divorced, on test and not interested in a relationship (like a dog with 2 dicks basically)
Then something more serious when I lost interest in fucking other girls
We've been living together for 9 years
Had a daughter for almost 5 years
Got a house together 3 years ago

We have been married for a year and a half.

I would say that to some extent marriage is dated. I was basically well committed both emotionally and legally by the time we got married. In fact, the only reason we got married is 'cause she asked me too and she wanted the whole 'wedding' thing.

So we did that. We didn't sign any official marriage certificate but that's fairly normal in Thailand for married people to not do the legal side.  Hardly makes any difference anyway.

So I am married and happy - but I think I did it the right way round. I think getting married after 1-2 years relationship is very tricky.

I was with my wife on and off (mostly on) for 7 years prior to getting married, so we knew each other inside/out... And there were no surprises

[Army of One]

I was with my wife on and off (mostly on) for 7 years prior to getting married, so we knew each other inside/out... And there were no surprises

Has she ever placed an object, digit or tongue in your anus?

[BIG ACH]

Has she ever placed an object, digit or tongue in your anus?

I don't particularly enjoy things in my anus, but whatever floats your boat my friend

[Princess L]