women want a guy who's 6'+. 6'1- 6'2 being ideal. muscular and in good shape. not overly muscular but athletically muscular. a strong jaw line and good ass.
those are the physical attributes that attract females biologically/ hormonally. you have those as a male your way ahead of the game. you stand that twink in that pic beside that guy I just described and he has no shot.
it's not abt 'choice' it's abt evolutionary biology and triggering in a female what makes a good potential mate. after that it's not saying anything stupid, living up to or surpassing her preconceived notions of what your going to be like when she talks to you, and your getting laid.