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Been in a time consuming  relationship the past 4 months, thats why I haven't been posting much. Ill try to make this short and sweet and let you guys form your opinion...I wanna hear some opinions.

-I met this 21 year old chick solid 8.5.. beginning of summer time. Not stupid I didn't jump into shit, I asked around and talked to her friends...told me for the most part she was a good chick not a party whore etc.
-She was being a pain in the ass so I broke up with her about three weeks ago  because 1) I could and knew shed beg for me to come back. 2)  stopped sucking my dick as much and refusing sex. She then tells me she's sorry and shell try and do more etc so I give her a second chance. Next time we hang out sex was great...sucked my dick on the freeway for 20 minutes straight.
-Noticed she's been acting funny around me lately. So Last night I invited her to a party with my friends and family  and she agrees to go. acts very strange at the party around my friends and family IMO it was guilt. she  says she was  sick from the drink and goes upstairs. I got in the room and she's fucking laying down texting someone. ::)  
- Figure if she refuses sex tonight something is up and she does...but wanted sex this morning.  So Im 50/50

Here is why I broke up with her fellas. She lives about 45 minutes away from me... I drop her off and tell her Im going to run some errands in her  area and I may pick her up again later if I decide to not  go back home.
Few hours later she's  acting VERY suspicious...asking me if Im still coming back later on that afternoon to take her to the beach and calling me several times. She never calls me this much I knew she was planning something with a guy or some shit. But I keep my cool and say lets see how she's dressed when I show up.  

I show up and sure enough she is.... hoop earrings etc. I  lose  my temper called her out on it why the fuck are you all dressed up? She then tells me
"I got dressed up for you"  ::)   yeah bitch you stopped getting dressed up for me after two months into the relationship.  in the car and I smelt  the guilt a mile away.  Pulled my ace card...told her to show me her cell phone.  She refused...told me "I have nothing to hide". I told her well if you have nothing to hide why not show it to me? She's all like "well you should trust me anyway".  ::)  Asked her several times and finally just Said fuck it.  I dropped her off at the mall and called her a fucking bitch etc.  

There were lots of issues. She's on snap chat and has a lot of guys on her friends list. I told her several times I think its wrong to send selfies to guys while in a relationship because even if its not intended to flirt  it sends the wrong signals... and she refused to delete that shit. (this chick wanted me to marry her and have kids with me  btw)

Id be lying if I didn't have some feelings for her but  between the above and what I told you...and a woman hiding her cell phone... would you honestly put up with that shit?
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #1 on: October 06, 2014, 01:20:22 AM »
Been in a time consuming  relationship the past 4 months, thats why I haven't been posting much. Ill try to make this short and sweet and let you guys form your opinion...I wanna hear some opinions.

-I met this 21 year old chick solid 8.5.. beginning of summer time. Not stupid I didn't jump into shit, I asked around and talked to her friends...told me for the most part she was a good chick not a party whore etc.
-She was being a pain in the ass so I broke up with her about three weeks ago  because 1) I could and knew shed beg for me to come back. 2)  stopped sucking my dick as much and refusing sex. She then tells me she's sorry and shell try and do more etc so I give her a second chance. Next time we hang out sex was great...sucked my dick on the freeway for 20 minutes straight.
-Noticed she's been acting funny around me lately. So Last night I invited her to a party with my friends and family  and she agrees to go. acts very strange at the party around my friends and family IMO it was guilt. she  says she was  sick from the drink and goes upstairs. I got in the room and she's fucking laying down texting someone. ::)  
- Figure if she refuses sex tonight something is up and she does...but wanted sex this morning.  So Im 50/50

Here is why I broke up with her fellas. She lives about 45 minutes away from me... I drop her off and tell her Im going to run some errands in her  area and I may pick her up again later if I decide to not  go back home.
Few hours later she's  acting VERY suspicious...asking me if Im still coming back later on that afternoon to take her to the beach and calling me several times. She never calls me this much I knew she was planning something with a guy or some shit. But I keep my cool and say lets see how she's dressed when I show up.  

I show up and sure enough she is.... hoop earrings etc. I  lose  my temper called her out on it why the fuck are you all dressed up? She then tells me
"I got dressed up for you"  ::)   yeah bitch you stopped getting dressed up for me after two months into the relationship.  in the car and I smelt  the guilt a mile away.  Pulled my ace card...told her to show me her cell phone.  She refused...told me "I have nothing to hide". I told her well if you have nothing to hide why not show it to me? She's all like "well you should trust me anyway".  ::)  Asked her several times and finally just Said fuck it.  I dropped her off at the mall and called her a fucking bitch etc.  

There were lots of issues. She's on snap chat and has a lot of guys on her friends list. I told her several times I think its wrong to send selfies to guys while in a relationship because even if its not intended to flirt  it sends the wrong signals... and she refused to delete that shit. (this chick wanted me to marry her and have kids with me  btw)

Id be lying if I didn't have some feelings for her but  between the above and what I told you...and a woman hiding her cell phone... would you honestly put up with that shit?
What does it matter?  You weren't going to marry her anyways.  Let her do what she wants.

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #2 on: October 06, 2014, 01:27:07 AM »
either she's the whorish loose type or she's just not that in to you and sees you as a casual ff

so either

a) see it as a ff
b) tell her to fuck off

if you have feelings for her better to call it off now and save the headache

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #3 on: October 06, 2014, 01:30:20 AM »
Shes a young whore, doing what young whores do. Move on.

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #4 on: October 06, 2014, 01:37:41 AM »
She's a whore and you're an asshole for pulling the "let me see your phone" card.

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #5 on: October 06, 2014, 01:42:23 AM »
btw. how can it not be intended to flirt sending selfies to other guys lol

you're not married or anything havn't been that long so she does what she wants but yeah I'd tell her to fuck off right there... But I'm not much for casual ff's (jealous type)

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #6 on: October 06, 2014, 01:43:46 AM »
either she's the whorish loose type or she's just not that in to you and sees you as a casual ff

so either

a) see it as a ff
b) tell her to fuck off

if you have feelings for her better to call it off now and save the headache

I asked around about her before I got serious with her, , knew chicks that knew her they told me she wasn't party/club girl.  I wanted a Casual fit really just someone to spend time with and  she was way more  serious....wanted to have kids with me and I told her I wanted to wait a few years at least because with us both being so  young  I don't think we are financially stable enough. She  Wanted me to marry her too lol would bring it up every week and Im like don't you think were rushing things a bit? .  I feel like if I would of given her these things or acted more interested in these things  she wouldn't of strayed or thought about straying.
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #7 on: October 06, 2014, 01:54:39 AM »
btw. how can it not be intended to flirt sending selfies to other guys lol

you're not married or anything havn't been that long so she does what she wants but yeah I'd tell her to fuck off right there... But I'm not much for casual ff's (jealous type)

When I told her that she's like "guys know their boundaries with me you have nothing to worry about "  ::)    Meanwhile she freaks out if I go to another bar with my buddies.   I told her if she wanted to act single she could be single  and it just led to a huge fight.

The only reason I got suspicious about the cheating is there were two occasions where I could of sworn I had money lying around my house go missing and she was the only one in the house. Could never prove it but was like damn I could of sworn I had that 40 bucks right there. And She lied about it so effortlessly...if a woman can steal and feel no guilt  why wouldn't she cheat.
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #8 on: October 06, 2014, 01:57:02 AM »
I asked around about her before I got serious with her, , knew chicks that knew her they told me she wasn't party/club girl.  I wanted a Casual fit really just someone to spend time with and  she was way more  serious....wanted to have kids with me and I told her I wanted to wait a few years at least because with us both being so  young  I don't think we are financially stable enough. She  Wanted me to marry her too lol would bring it up every week and Im like don't you think were rushing things a bit? .  I feel like if I would of given her these things or acted more interested in these things  she wouldn't of strayed or thought about straying.

Doubt it, she sounds like thé type thats in love with being in love. Forces emotions very quickly in thé beginning, then mentally checks out soon as the novelty wears off.

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #9 on: October 06, 2014, 01:59:43 AM »
I would have dumped her for good from your second bullet point.

HTH  :)
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #10 on: October 06, 2014, 02:04:52 AM »
Doubt it, she sounds like thé type thats in love with being in love. Forces emotions very quickly in thé beginning, then mentally checks out soon as the novelty wears off.

 she did fall for me pretty quickly but didn't give it up as quick as most girls.  The funny thing is I would contemplate breaking up with her all the time,  I was literally ready to leave no problem at some time sin the relationship but the moment I felt like I Was losing  her I wanted her back and kept doing more and more for her.
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #11 on: October 06, 2014, 02:07:00 AM »
I would have dumped her for good from your second bullet point.

HTH  :)

lol whatsup 
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #12 on: October 06, 2014, 02:26:59 AM »
she did fall for me pretty quickly but didn't give it up as quick as most girls.  The funny thing is I would contemplate breaking up with her all the time,  I was literally ready to leave no problem at some time sin the relationship but the moment I felt like I Was losing  her I wanted her back and kept doing more and more for her.
Hopefully this has taught you to never lose the upperhand in thé relationship. Let these women chase you.

In example, dont let little things like not dressing féminin around you slide. A white knight would argue "Love is unconditional and she doesn’t have to prove herself to you all the time."

Truth is women don’t try to please men they don’t want to fuck.

Next time, counter by wearing another womans perfume on your shirt ;) she'll be fighting for your attention then

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #13 on: October 06, 2014, 02:40:18 AM »
Been in a time consuming  relationship the past 4 months, thats why I haven't been posting much. Ill try to make this short and sweet and let you guys form your opinion...I wanna hear some opinions.

-I met this 21 year old chick solid 8.5.. beginning of summer time. Not stupid I didn't jump into shit, I asked around and talked to her friends...told me for the most part she was a good chick not a party whore etc.
-She was being a pain in the ass so I broke up with her about three weeks ago  because 1) I could and knew shed beg for me to come back. 2)  stopped sucking my dick as much and refusing sex. She then tells me she's sorry and shell try and do more etc so I give her a second chance. Next time we hang out sex was great...sucked my dick on the freeway for 20 minutes straight.
-Noticed she's been acting funny around me lately. So Last night I invited her to a party with my friends and family  and she agrees to go. acts very strange at the party around my friends and family IMO it was guilt. she  says she was  sick from the drink and goes upstairs. I got in the room and she's fucking laying down texting someone. ::)  
- Figure if she refuses sex tonight something is up and she does...but wanted sex this morning.  So Im 50/50

Here is why I broke up with her fellas. She lives about 45 minutes away from me... I drop her off and tell her Im going to run some errands in her  area and I may pick her up again later if I decide to not  go back home.
Few hours later she's  acting VERY suspicious...asking me if Im still coming back later on that afternoon to take her to the beach and calling me several times. She never calls me this much I knew she was planning something with a guy or some shit. But I keep my cool and say lets see how she's dressed when I show up.  

I show up and sure enough she is.... hoop earrings etc. I  lose  my temper called her out on it why the fuck are you all dressed up? She then tells me
"I got dressed up for you"  ::)   yeah bitch you stopped getting dressed up for me after two months into the relationship.  in the car and I smelt  the guilt a mile away.  Pulled my ace card...told her to show me her cell phone.  She refused...told me "I have nothing to hide". I told her well if you have nothing to hide why not show it to me? She's all like "well you should trust me anyway".  ::)  Asked her several times and finally just Said fuck it.  I dropped her off at the mall and called her a fucking bitch etc.  

There were lots of issues. She's on snap chat and has a lot of guys on her friends list. I told her several times I think its wrong to send selfies to guys while in a relationship because even if its not intended to flirt  it sends the wrong signals... and she refused to delete that shit. (this chick wanted me to marry her and have kids with me  btw)

Id be lying if I didn't have some feelings for her but  between the above and what I told you...and a woman hiding her cell phone... would you honestly put up with that shit?


She's from generation nothingness, she's probably dating several guy on the same time.
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #14 on: October 06, 2014, 02:42:18 AM »
Hopefully this has taught you to never lose the upperhand in thé relationship. Let these women chase you.

In example, dont let little things like not dressing féminin around you slide. A white knight would argue "Love is unconditional and she doesn’t have to prove herself to you all the time."

Truth is women don’t try to please men they don’t want to fuck.

Next time, counter by wearing another womans perfume on your shirt ;)

IDK dude what threw me off was the sex this morning. Never caught her with another guy or had any proof. Why would a really emotional chick like her  would want to have sex and with me and even initiate it with me this morning if she had feelings for someone else? She was drunk last night and avoided it but sober this morning and initiated it i was fucking asleep when she started bouncing her ass on me. But the cell phone and getting sick at the party around my family and friends?  had to go  with my gut I just hope I was right.
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #15 on: October 06, 2014, 02:48:21 AM »
IDK dude what threw me off was the sex this morning. Never caught her with another guy or had any proof. Why would a really emotional chick like her  would want to have sex and with me and even initiate it with me this morning if she had feelings for someone else? She was drunk last night and avoided it but sober this morning and initiated it i was fucking asleep when she started bouncing her ass on me. But the cell phone and getting sick at the party around my family and friends?  had to go  with my gut I just hope I was right.

That was thé whores way of asking for forgiveness, bro. Personally, id cut her off.

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #16 on: October 06, 2014, 02:52:40 AM »
What sucks the most about this shit is In the past four months I literally lost 90% % of my close  friends because I literally spent every bit of free time I had with this chick.... I feel alone and my ego is bruised.  :P :'(
Literally haven't been to a club in 4 months I need to get back out there.  I just wish I would of went through with dumping her that time  before she hurt me....knew it.
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #17 on: October 06, 2014, 02:57:35 AM »
Stop asking for advices Flint, you're not a virgin anymore, or..?

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #18 on: October 06, 2014, 03:03:08 AM »
are you still 21?

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #19 on: October 06, 2014, 03:03:49 AM »
any pics of this chick flint
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #20 on: October 06, 2014, 03:08:20 AM »
No pics, come on this is getbig.. why start a thread without pics?


only chics ask to see another's phone.  What if she deletes messages after reading them, what will seeing her phone then prove?  ::)
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #21 on: October 06, 2014, 03:08:47 AM »
Just read your OP, you sound like an over possessive asshole.

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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #22 on: October 06, 2014, 03:11:15 AM »
Stop asking for advices Flint, you're not a virgin anymore, or..?

As far as I know Im the only guy she's ever introduced her mom to seriously since her first bf and this was literally last week I went out to dinner with the family.   Her aunt and uncle told me Im the only guy she's ever brought over and they would even let me stay in their home in the same room with her.  She posted shit all over her Facebook and instagram  about me being her soul mate and her everything. If the bitch had any brains she wouldn't let the world know she was single this quickly because nobody will believe  her if she says she was the one who dumped me lol.
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Re: dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?
« Reply #23 on: October 06, 2014, 03:12:01 AM »
No pics, come on this is getbig.. why start a thread without pics?


only chics ask to see another's phone.  What if she deletes messages after reading them, what will seeing her phone then prove?  ::)

Well she obviously didn't and had something to hide thats why she wouldn't show me her phone.
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« Reply #24 on: October 06, 2014, 03:13:17 AM »
Well she obviously didn't and had something to hide thats why she wouldn't show me her phone.

Do you know that relationships are based on trust?