dumped my gf today..was i tripping or would you have done the same?

[Skorp1o]

[Irongrip400]

Been in a time consuming  relationship the past 4 months, thats why I haven't been posting much. Ill try to make this short and sweet and let you guys form your opinion...I wanna hear some opinions.

-I met this 21 year old chick solid 8.5.. beginning of summer time. Not stupid I didn't jump into shit, I asked around and talked to her friends...told me for the most part she was a good chick not a party whore etc.
-She was being a pain in the ass so I broke up with her about three weeks ago  because 1) I could and knew shed beg for me to come back. 2)  stopped sucking my dick as much and refusing sex. She then tells me she's sorry and shell try and do more etc so I give her a second chance. Next time we hang out sex was great...sucked my dick on the freeway for 20 minutes straight.
-Noticed she's been acting funny around me lately. So Last night I invited her to a party with my friends and family  and she agrees to go. acts very strange at the party around my friends and family IMO it was guilt. she  says she was  sick from the drink and goes upstairs. I got in the room and she's fucking laying down texting someone.  
- Figure if she refuses sex tonight something is up and she does...but wanted sex this morning.  So Im 50/50

Here is why I broke up with her fellas. She lives about 45 minutes away from me... I drop her off and tell her Im going to run some errands in her  area and I may pick her up again later if I decide to not  go back home.
Few hours later she's  acting VERY suspicious...asking me if Im still coming back later on that afternoon to take her to the beach and calling me several times. She never calls me this much I knew she was planning something with a guy or some shit. But I keep my cool and say lets see how she's dressed when I show up.  

I show up and sure enough she is.... hoop earrings etc. I  lose  my temper called her out on it why the fuck are you all dressed up? She then tells me
"I got dressed up for you"     yeah bitch you stopped getting dressed up for me after two months into the relationship.  in the car and I smelt  the guilt a mile away.  Pulled my ace card...told her to show me her cell phone.  She refused...told me "I have nothing to hide". I told her well if you have nothing to hide why not show it to me? She's all like "well you should trust me anyway".    Asked her several times and finally just Said fuck it.  I dropped her off at the mall and called her a fucking bitch etc.  

There were lots of issues. She's on snap chat and has a lot of guys on her friends list. I told her several times I think its wrong to send selfies to guys while in a relationship because even if its not intended to flirt  it sends the wrong signals... and she refused to delete that shit. (this chick wanted me to marry her and have kids with me  btw)

Id be lying if I didn't have some feelings for her but  between the above and what I told you...and a woman hiding her cell phone... would you honestly put up with that shit?

Dude, this in itself is unacceptable.

[Simple Simon]

Its the same old same old from flintstones, he gets a girlfriend but hes too emotionally stunted to maintain a relationship, he falls head over heels in love and becomes jealous and insecure then scares them off with his stalkerish behaviour.

[flinstones1]

Do you know that relationships are based on trust?

 I know you and I have had our differences bro but this is the truth - you don't want to know  how many times I ignored the obvious signals  and told myself it was nothing. There were times where money went missing and I knew it was her but didn't want to believe it. Times when she would get snap chats after midnight and I told myself it was her girlfriends

Last night was when I woke the fuck up.   And everything i predicted today from her texts to her phone calls  happened exactly like I thought it would down to the final minute today.  Because  Ive seen this girl a ton of  times, she never calls me two minutes after she texts me to see if I'm home or not   she never dresses up on a fucking sunday afternoon to go to walmart. Keeps a 5 dollar rose i bought her on the beach for two months in her room but  Forgets the fresh flowers I buy her yesterday. and when i brought them back to her today she grabbed them and turned away.  And hanging up the phone as soon as I get out the car and start walking towards her.  All this in a matter of minutes........How many signs do you need

[DroppingPlates]

As far as I know Im the only guy she's ever introduced her mom to seriously since her first bf and this was literally last week I went out to dinner with the family.   Her aunt and uncle told me Im the only guy she's ever brought over and they would even let me stay in their home in the same room with her.  She posted shit all over her Facebook and instagram  about me being her soul mate and her everything. If the bitch had any brains she wouldn't let the world know she was single this quickly because nobody will believe  her if she says she was the one who dumped me lol.

Well she's 21, which seems a normal age to me to become more serious about relationships (at least for a woman).
Social media are a serious decease, but hey, where will you find young women who aren't facebooking or texting all the time?
It's wiser to learn from your experiences, blaming others is for fools, so move on friend

[Julio Ceasar]

21 yrs old....girlfriend....4 month....snapchat....fri end....male "friends".....hahahahah

HOW FUCKING OLD ARE U! U ARE DATING A CHILD AND U ARE A BOY!

IM expecting a 10 on pictures, a solid 8.5 should look lika a 10 on pictures if she know makeup, angels, lights and expresions and know how to pose.

If she use social media u can never have a relationship, there will always be tons of guys chatting, mailing, sending pictures to her. She will get tired of u pretty easy.

[Julio Ceasar]

So the truth is. SHE DUMPED U haha! U are fucked!

[gracie bjj]

theres so much pussy out there bro that u shouldn't have to settle for anything, especially if u sense she is snaking around behind your back. pussies all over the place so just say fuck it n get some new snatch,dont put up with a sneaky bitch bro cause they will drag u down if u r not careful,u did the right thing imo

[irishdave]

You did the right thing. She's playing games and marriage talk at this stage is nonsense and immature...she's a flake (like most of them) so get out NOW!

[kreator]

when did men stop beating up women? what's this world coming to?

[Simple Simon]

I know you and I have had our differences bro but this is the truth - you don't want to know  how many times I ignored the obvious signals  and told myself it was nothing. There were times where money went missing and I knew it was her but didn't want to believe it. Times when she would get snap chats after midnight and I told myself it was her girlfriends

Last night was when I woke the fuck up.   And everything i predicted today from her texts to her phone calls  happened exactly like I thought it would down to the final minute today.  Because  Ive seen this girl a ton of  times, she never calls me two minutes after she texts me to see if I'm home or not   she never dresses up on a fucking sunday afternoon to go to walmart. Keeps a 5 dollar rose i bought her on the beach for two months in her room but  Forgets the fresh flowers I buy her yesterday. and when i brought them back to her today she grabbed them and turned away.  And hanging up the phone as soon as I get out the car and start walking towards her.  All this in a matter of minutes........How many signs do you need

You just have to come to terms with the fact that the girls that you fall head over heels in love with are just not that into you.
Nobody falls for someone in a couple of months, wake the fuck up and start acting like a grown up.

[flinstones1]

So the truth is. SHE DUMPED U haha! U are fucked!

hmmmm it Depends on how you look at it ... ..I  knew that me asking to look  her  at her phone would be the end of our relationship, and caling her a fucking bitch would be the nail in the coffin but I went over it in my brain and chose to do it anyway.
And either way  whatever guy she did hang out with today got my sloppy seconds. I would never go on a date with a chick knowing she had sex with some dude that same day.
 food aside  never bought her anything more than a purse for her birthday  and a bathing suit at target. she's given my head probably 50  times and not once did I ever eat her out even when she asked. I think Im still in the win.

[booty]

hmmmm it Depends on how you look at it ... ..I  knew that me asking to look  her  at her phone would be the end of our relationship, and caling her a fucking bitch would be the nail in the coffin but I went over it in my brain and chose to do it anyway.
And either way  whatever guy she did hang out with today got my sloppy seconds. I would never go on a date with a chick knowing she had sex with some dude that same day.
 food aside  never bought her anything more than a purse for her birthday  and a bathing suit at target. she's given my head probably 50  times and not once did I ever eat her out even when she asked. I think Im still in the win.

You sound selfish in the bedroom.

[MAXX]

You sound selfish in the bedroom.

thought this too

he expects her to suck his dick but prolly never goes down on her

[booty]

thought this too

he expects her to suck his dick but prolly never goes down on her

Very selfish and all about his own needs.

[gmflex]

Not trying to hurt your feelings Flintstone..
But you not going down her when she asked was the beginning of the end..
She probably wasn't sexually satisfied and had to find it some where else..

[MAXX]

yes fellas learn to eat a womans snatch it can be a dealbreaker. personally I love it  

[flinstones1]

You sound selfish in the bedroom.

The sex  started off great booty.  the night of her 21st birthday we fucked for hours,   a mutual friend of hers (who she doesn't know Im close with) told her I gave her her first orgasm ever.  Gf wouldn't stop talking about "that night" for a week "that night won't be forgotten". This was only the second time I had slept with her and I think part of sexual attraction is novelty.   Today was the first time I really failed in the bedroom with her and I don't think I ever will be able to sleep with her again...hard to make love to a liar.

[Hulkotron]

POFO

[Simple Simon]

Here is why I broke up with her fellas. She lives about 45 minutes away from me... I drop her off and tell her Im going to run some errands in her  area and I may pick her up again later if I decide to not  go back home.
Few hours later she's  acting VERY suspicious...asking me if Im still coming back later on that afternoon to take her to the beach and calling me several times. She never calls me this much I knew she was planning something with a guy or some shit. But I keep my cool and say lets see how she's dressed when I show up.  

I show up and sure enough she is.... hoop earrings etc. I  lose  my temper called her out on it why the fuck are you all dressed up? She then tells me
"I got dressed up for you"     yeah bitch you stopped getting dressed up for me after two months into the relationship.  in the car and I smelt  the guilt a mile away.  Pulled my ace card...told her to show me her cell phone.  She refused...told me "I have nothing to hide". I told her well if you have nothing to hide why not show it to me? She's all like "well you should trust me anyway".    Asked her several times and finally just Said fuck it.  I dropped her off at the mall and called her a fucking bitch etc.  

Now heres her version of events
My boyfriend dropped me off at home and said he was going to stick around, I was so looking forward for him coming back and exited at the prospect of going out, so I called him a few times to see what he had in mind, he wouldnt tell me so got dressed ready in case he came back unexpectedly
When he did turn up he totally lost the plot hurling abuse at me for no reason at all.
We got in the car and the air was thick with his anger, I was begining to get scared , then he asked to see my phone, he has no right to look at my phone, I have only known this asshole for 4 months, WTF is wrong with him?
He then almost threw me out of the car huirling abuse at me.

What an asshiole, Lucky escape there methinks.


PS I also love the idea that old flintstones thinks looped earrings are the dead give away that someone is "dressed up", he must mix with some real quality chicks.

[kreator]

u didn't eat the pussy? dude wtf? it's like low carb candy

[booty]

Now heres her version of events
My boyfriend dropped me off at home and said he was going to stick around, I was so looking forward for him coming back and exited at the prospect of going out, so I called him a few times to see what he had in mind, he wouldnt tell me so got dressed ready in case he came back unexpectedly
When he did turn up he totally lost the plot hurling abuse at me for no reason at all.
We got in the car and the air was thick with his anger, I was begining to get scared , then he asked to see my phone, he has no right to look at my phone, I have only known this asshole for 4 months, WTF is wrong with him?
He then almost threw me out of the car huirling abuse at me.

What an asshiole, Lucky escape there methinks.


PS I also love the idea that old flintstones thinks looped earrings are the dead give away that someone is "dressed up", he must mix with some real quality chicks.

He probably stopped taking her out two months ago and that's why she stopped getting dressed up. Then he gives her the impression that he is taking her somewhere and she gets excited and dresses up, ready for him when he arrives. Then he flies into a rage demanding to see her phone. Afterwards she will reason with herself that he was a selfish bastard who never went down on her so she is better off without him.

[Simple Simon]

He probably stopped taking her out two months ago and that's why she stopped getting dressed up. Then he gives her the impression that he is taking her somewhere and she gets excited and dresses up, ready for him when he arrives. Then he flies into a rage demanding to see her phone. Afterwards she will reason with herself that he was a selfish bastard who never went down on her so she is better off without him.

all his stories are the same,
blah, blah, blah..he gets dumped

If these stories are to be believed the guy is a selfish possessive asshole, who is still 21 after god knows how many years of posting here.

To be fair though I think the the stories are a product of his over active imagination.

[Mrdibbs]

You sound very paranoid.

Learn to play cool. Women will always play mindgames (to more or less extend). If the mindgames are unacceptable. Leave, immediately.

[bigmc]

lets see some pics of this chic

and quite with the oprah winfrey advice