RIP - Chris Jalali

[BayGBM]

lol posing in the gym showing off your roided muscles is really EVERYTHING  these poor fuckers have, to the point they re going to kill themselves for it. Lol at the jesus god church bullshits.

"Wrong thinking is punishable!  Right thinking will be equally rewarded!"

[njflex]

Fake christian. Am I any better?  Yup.  Does that mean I will make it?  I have no clue.  I have my doubts too and express them freely here and in the real world because I refuse to lie to people about faith or the lack thereof.  This manlet was a roid hogging G4P wanker and that's evidenced by...well by the evidence. 

I doubt he went to be with the Lord as the Lord is definitely not a schmoe.  His father is being a father and hoping against hope.  What's worse, that his son has died or that he left a living legacy of G4P all over the interwebs?

Once again for those that think otherwise.  Live too large, die small. 

just like 'separating church from state'...roids/church/god means nothing,its the individual who has the cross to bear'its my body '

[BayGBM]

Fake christian. Am I any better?  Yup.  Does that mean I will make it?  I have no clue.  I have my doubts too and express them freely here and in the real world because I refuse to lie to people about faith or the lack thereof.  This manlet was a roid hogging G4P wanker and that's evidenced by...well by the evidence. 

I doubt he went to be with the Lord as the Lord is definitely not a schmoe.  His father is being a father and hoping against hope.  What's worse, that his son has died or that he left a living legacy of G4P all over the interwebs?

Once again for those that think otherwise.  Live too large, die small. 

I sincerely hope his family members do not go trolling the internet for his legacy.  They will be very hurt by what they find.  It will be even worse if they try to defend Chris by engaging online critics.  This has become all too common when one of these guys passes on.

[denarii]

Is it any wonder the sport is considered a freak show and roids r illegal...

[2good4u]

rip...hope is painless and quick....

[The Scott]

Your post is pretty judgmental, which is a shame. I gather you are a Christian. Casting stones doesn't seem like a very Christian thing to do.

Its not a shame to tell the truth and to lie is a sham.  I am gradually losing my faith and struggling to hold on.  Want me to lie?  If you sugar coat crap you wind up with sugar coated crap.  Simple, huh?

Please don't give me that stuff about "being judgmental and casting stones is wrong" because the truth is we are allowed to make judgments elsewise we just run stupid over everything.  No...Wait! Liberals already do this in the name of free love or whatever the poo it is called now.

I don't lie.  Not to salve my own sorry pathetic soul nor yours.  Or anyone else's for that matter. Including a worthless dead G4P brokeass, dumbfuck pseudo bodybuilder and his father. 

And yes, I feel like shit today. MY leg looks like an eggplant and I am refusing any medication to relieve the pain.  Not an excuse or a reason for my attitude.  I already explained why I think the way I do right now.    Sucking up to the false memory of a bereaved relative is not going to A) bring the dead fool of a son back and B) make the truth of his son's pathetic imitation of a life any less sordid.   That kid was a SLUT.

[Primemuscle]

Its not a shame to tell the truth and to lie is a sham.  I am gradually losing my faith and struggling to hold on.  Want me to lie?  If you sugar coat crap you wind up with sugar coated crap.  Simple, huh?

Please don't give me that stuff about "being judgmental and casting stones is wrong" because the truth is we are allowed to make judgments elsewise we just run stupid over everything.  No...Wait! Liberals already do this in the name of free love or whatever the poo it is called now.

I don't lie.  Not to salve my own sorry pathetic soul nor yours.  Or anyone else's for that matter. Including a worthless dead G4P brokeass, dumbfuck pseudo bodybuilder and his father. 

And yes, I feel like shit today. MY leg looks like an eggplant and I am refusing any medication to relieve the pain.  Not an excuse or a reason for my attitude.  I already explained why I think the way I do right now.    Sucking up to the false memory of a bereaved relative is not going to A) bring the dead fool of a son back and B) make the truth of his son's pathetic imitation of a life any less sordid.   That kid was a SLUT.

If you could say that to his face, you'd be telling the truth as you believe it to be. Saying this after he is dead when there is a chance that people who were his friends and family might read it is hurtful and meanspirited. If you were at someone's memorial service and you were asked to speak, would you feel compelled to tell the truth, would you decline to say anything or would you lie?

[The Scott]

If you could say that to his face, you'd be telling the truth as you believe it to be. Saying this after he is dead when there is a chance that people who were his friends and family might read it is hurtful and meanspirited. If you were at someone's memorial service and you were asked to speak, would you feel compelled to tell the truth, would you decline to say anything or would you lie?

Yes I would.  I spoke it at my own youngest brothers funeral service in front of my mother and our family as well as many other people that knew him.  I spoke out against drug use and how he was a moron to ever start and to ultimately take his own life.  I have no problem with speaking the truth over a lie.   I spoke against his drug use to his face when he was alive.  I had him arrested and taken to jail and later on to a mental hospital because I love him.  To have sat by and watch without doing right  and then later on to whine and moan about how he "loved the lawd" is to tarnish yourself and make a mockery of what it is to be a responsible parent or loved one.

The family and friends of this pathetic loser may or may not have had the courage, the testicular fortitude to tell their late relative/friend he was on the path to death.  If not, then they are pussies.  If so, then they were true friends and family and loved him.   Only a total puss would refrain from doing all that they could to help someone avoid themselves.

I am right.  You are wrong.   A red light does not mean go, not even if you "mean well".     This is a debate you cannot win because what I say is true and not because it is I who am saying it.   We are friends, you and I but I have stood against my own grieving mother and told her the truth and therefore can easily do so with  anyone on this earth.

Be well.

[che]

The family and friends of this pathetic loser may or may not have had the courage, the testicular fortitude to tell their late relative/friend he was on the path to death. 

How did that work out with your brother? 

[RagingBull]

RIP

[SaintAnger]

Another addict.  OK...

For those of you with addiction experience, does any of these extreme abusers (rec or otherwise) have a diagnosed mental illness?

[The Scott]

How did that work out with your brother? 

He was responsible for his life and the taking of it but you already knew that.  You're a regular Einstein when you're at a family reunion.

[Primemuscle]

Yes I would.  I spoke it at my own youngest brothers funeral service in front of my mother and our family as well as many other people that knew him.  I spoke out against drug use and how he was a moron to ever start and to ultimately take his own life.  I have no problem with speaking the truth over a lie.   I spoke against his drug use to his face when he was alive.  I had him arrested and taken to jail and later on to a mental hospital because I love him.  To have sat by and watch without doing right  and then later on to whine and moan about how he "loved the lawd" is to tarnish yourself and make a mockery of what it is to be a responsible parent or loved one.

The family and friends of this pathetic loser may or may not have had the courage, the testicular fortitude to tell their late relative/friend he was on the path to death.  If not, then they are pussies.  If so, then they were true friends and family and loved him.   Only a total puss would refrain from doing all that they could to help someone avoid themselves.

I am right.  You are wrong.   A red light does not mean go, not even if you "mean well".     This is a debate you cannot win because what I say is true and not because it is I who am saying it.   We are friends, you and I but I have stood against my own grieving mother and told her the truth and therefore can easily do so with  anyone on this earth.

Be well.

With respect to your brother, what did you accomplish by speaking what you believed to be the truth at his funeral service? He was already dead. The things you did and said to him when he was alive, although well intended, didn't ultimately significantly change much apparently since he ended up dying/killing himself anyway. I get that you were angry that he chose the path that he did. Believe you are right if you wish, I believe you were and are dead wrong.

[The Scott]

With respect to your brother, what did you accomplish by speaking what you believed to be the truth at his funeral service? He was already dead. The things you did and said to him when he was alive, although well intended, didn't ultimately significantly change much apparently since he ended up dying/killing himself anyway. I get that you were angry that he chose the path that he did. Believe you are right if you wish, I believe you were and are dead wrong.

For fucks sake.  Really?  Reeeeally?!  Why do we as family members do anything for anyone?    He was  a FUCKING DRUG ADDICT.

Its not as if you can choose to deny the truth and come out looking reasonable, but neither does pussyfooting around it like some sort of politically correct dolt do you justice.  Do not attempt to be a sensitive new age guy.  It's not masculine, its pathetic and beneath what it means to be a responsible adult.    As I said to another person, he was responsible for his life and the taking of it.

Is that too difficult to understand?  I think not.    You are behaving as a child of the sixties.  All fuzzy and looking for the good in everything and everybody.  Allow me.

Some people are full of life, others are full of shit.  Shit comes in many forms.  Drug and alcohol abuse being but two.  Holding hands while wearing a fucktard dashiki and swaying back and forth singing Kumbyah or Old Man River is nothing short of nonsense.  If you cannot judge between right and wrong then you have no business with the affairs of man.  No business being employed.  No business being married and having children.  To say there are no rules is folly.  The Universe has a balance to it.  You know.  Laws.  But unlike the pirate code, they are laws, not guidelines.

We will have to agree to disagree before I become very disagreeable and make a laughingstock of your suppositions (not you!) with  one hand tied behind my brain.   

[BodyConnoisseur]

For fucks sake.  Really?  Reeeeally?!  Why do we as family members do anything for anyone?    He was  a FUCKING DRUG ADDICT.

Its not as if you can choose to deny the truth and come out looking reasonable, but neither does pussyfooting around it like some sort of politically correct dolt do you justice.  Do not attempt to be a sensitive new age guy.  It's not masculine, its pathetic and beneath what it means to be a responsible adult.    As I said to another person, he was responsible for his life and the taking of it.

Is that too difficult to understand?  I think not.    You are behaving as a child of the sixties.  All fuzzy and looking for the good in everything and everybody.  Allow me.

Some people are full of life, others are full of shit.  Shit comes in many forms.  Drug and alcohol abuse being but two.  Holding hands while wearing a fucktard dashiki and swaying back and forth singing Kumbyah or Old Man River is nothing short of nonsense.  If you cannot judge between right and wrong then you have no business with the affairs of man.  No business being employed.  No business being married and having children.  To say there are no rules is folly.  The Universe has a balance to it.  You know.  Laws.  But unlike the pirate code, they are laws, not guidelines.

We will have to agree to disagree before I become very disagreeable and make a laughingstock of your suppositions (not you!) with  one hand tied behind my brain.   

You dont get it, but you look like a judgmental moral shaming headcase. You throwing obstacles in your brothers life obviously didnt help shit. And now youre pissing on the dead. I sincerely hope you rot in eternal hell you old senile piece of shit.

[Primemuscle]

For fucks sake.  Really?  Reeeeally?!  Why do we as family members do anything for anyone?    He was  a FUCKING DRUG ADDICT.

Its not as if you can choose to deny the truth and come out looking reasonable, but neither does pussyfooting around it like some sort of politically correct dolt do you justice.  Do not attempt to be a sensitive new age guy.  It's not masculine, its pathetic and beneath what it means to be a responsible adult.    As I said to another person, he was responsible for his life and the taking of it.

Is that too difficult to understand?  I think not.    You are behaving as a child of the sixties.  All fuzzy and looking for the good in everything and everybody.  Allow me.

Some people are full of life, others are full of shit.  Shit comes in many forms.  Drug and alcohol abuse being but two.  Holding hands while wearing a fucktard dashiki and swaying back and forth singing Kumbyah or Old Man River is nothing short of nonsense.  If you cannot judge between right and wrong then you have no business with the affairs of man.  No business being employed.  No business being married and having children.  To say there are no rules is folly.  The Universe has a balance to it.  You know.  Laws.  But unlike the pirate code, they are laws, not guidelines.

We will have to agree to disagree before I become very disagreeable and make a laughingstock of your suppositions (not you!) with  one hand tied behind my brain.    

You can act as disagreeably as you choose. You didn't answer the question I asked you. This is most likely because you already know the answer is that nothing you said at your brother's funeral benefited anyone but you because you were and are still an angry person and you felt you had to express this anger somehow.

You couldn't save your brother from himself when he was alive and you sure as heck could not bring him back to life after he died.

Just so you know, some people who were very close to me were self-destructive and died relatively young because of this. I miss them, I came to accept that which I could not change about them and I love them. What I don't do is speak in hateful terms with regards to them now that they are dead.

[SF1900]

I noticed that whenever someone does, family members or friends always say, "He/she was the nicest person ever" or "They had a heard of gold" or "They cared deeply for everyone."

I hope when I die people say at least some truthful shit about me like, "Ugh, he always thought he was right" or "He was very argumentative, that is what annoyed us most about him" or "He made fun of Goodrum too much on Getbig."

[Primemuscle]

I noticed that whenever someone does, family members or friends always say, "He/she was the nicest person ever" or "They had a heard of gold" or "They cared deeply for everyone."

I hope when I die people say at least some truthful shit about me like, "Ugh, he always thought he was right" or "He was very argumentative, that is what annoyed us most about him" or "He made fun of Goodrum too much on Getbig."

There is nothing wrong with being honest about someone who has passed as long as that honesty isn't inconsiderate of or hurtful to those they left behind.

[The Scott]

You dont get it, but you look like a judgmental moral shaming headcase. You throwing obstacles in your brothers life obviously didnt help shit. And now youre pissing on the dead. I sincerely hope you rot in eternal hell you old senile piece of shit.

Fuck off, little man.  You are an illiterate moron incapable of anything outside a gym.  What pray  tell is a "body connoisseur"?  Right.

[The Scott]

There is nothing wrong with being honest about someone who has passed as long as that honesty isn't inconsiderate of or hurtful to those they left behind.

So then, being a total man whore all over the internet is just fine and dandy? The subject of this discussion was just that. A slut.  No one likes a slut, not even the slut's customers.  When the slut dies the customers just move on (as if they hadn't already) to the next worthless, lazy man whore.

It's not hard to tell the truth.  It is however difficult for some to not only hear but accept it. 

[The Scott]

I noticed that whenever someone does, family members or friends always say, "He/she was the nicest person ever" or "They had a heard of gold" or "They cared deeply for everyone."

I hope when I die people say at least some truthful shit about me like, "Ugh, he always thought he was right" or "He was very argumentative, that is what annoyed us most about him" or "He made fun of Goodrum too much on Getbig."

 

Yup.  I expect that when I am gone there will good and bad said about me and both will be true.    These people spouting words of love and comfort are pretty much living in the past of the now gone loved ones.  If the family of the subject of the thread was to see what his son did for a lazy living he would be left nearly speechless.

Until he was alone with his grief and the truth of its source, in this case that his son turned into a lazy bodybuilder that sold himself to other men.  I've said before that I have no real problem with homosexuality but selling yourself?  Gross.  Lazy.  Disgusting.

Shit.  Now I'm going to "liberal hell" for picking on a man whore.  Not a problem really because for libtards hell is controlled by Ronald Reagan!   

Be well.

[The Scott]

you seem to have chosen self righteousness revenge to the dead rather than choosing  caring compassion for the living

"Caring compassion"?  "Self righteousness revenge"?  Please.  No offense taken and certainly none intended.   These individuals live and died a lie.   I suppose you get out the weeping vase for every death you hear of? 

Thought not.

[SF1900]

Yup.  I expect that when I am gone there will good and bad said about me and both will be true.    These people spouting words of love and comfort are pretty much living in the past of the now gone loved ones.  If the family of the subject of the thread was to see what his son did for a lazy living he would be left nearly speechless.

Until he was alone with his grief and the truth of its source, in this case that his son turned into a lazy bodybuilder that sold himself to other men.  I've said before that I have no real problem with homosexuality but selling yourself?  Gross.  Lazy.  Disgusting.

Shit.  Now I'm going to "liberal hell" for picking on a man whore.  Not a problem really because for libtards hell is controlled by Ronald Reagan!   

Be well.

Similarly, I suspect a mix of things will be said of me. Naturally, my parents will say words of love, etc. I am sure the ex girlfriends or friends will say otherwise. 

[Primemuscle]

So then, being a total man whore all over the internet is just fine and dandy? The subject of this discussion was just that. A slut.  No one likes a slut, not even the slut's customers.  When the slut dies the customers just move on (as if they hadn't already) to the next worthless, lazy man whore.

It's not hard to tell the truth.  It is however difficult for some to not only hear but accept it. 

What he was means nothing now because he is dead.

Man whore or woman whore, it is often a very sad life....and yet there are so many people who fall into it for one reason or another. Some lucky folks move on to a better life and others die before they have the chance to change. Think about it, there aren't a heck of a lot of old folks who are still whoring for a living.

The question is why you feel the need to say anything at all about people you don't really know. You just think that you do and so you judge them.

"Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you." Matthew 7:1-3 KJV

[The Scott]

What he was means nothing now because he is dead.

Man whore or woman whore, it is often a very sad life....and yet there are so many people who fall into it for one reason or another. Some lucky folks move on to a better life and others die before they have the chance to change. Think about it, there aren't a heck of a lot of old folks who are still whoring for a living.

The question is why you feel the need to say anything at all about people you don't really know. You just think that you do and so you judge them.

"Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you." Matthew 7:1-3 KJV

You want judgment?  You know Christ even less than I and I am honest enough to say that my faith in man is far less than my faith in the Christ.  Fuck that bullshit you just quoted because it means absolutely nothing to you to begin with.   It's only convenient for non believers to pull out when they want to try and make a statement seem valid.

It's like saying in the name of JESUS!!!!  Without any authority behind (and I can assure you that you lack any such authority at all, perhaps even less than I right now) you might as well be calling some undocumented gardener's name out.

Come see me when you live the faith for years, not just quote it for conveniences' sake.  Think I'm upset?  Hell no. I am just tired of the lies and the bullshit and the deception and that's just with today's bodybuilding, don't get me started on faith, kiddo.

Kumbaiyaaaaa my ass.