What i really admired about couples like my granfathers generation is that the sexes complimented each other... they knew each others pitfalls and shortcomings and they took care and looked out for each other.
He knew she was physically weaker and needed help doing physical things and protection from harm, and she knew he needed someone to be a voice of reason and balancr, to help keep him calm and grounded, and to make sure he didn't flip out and do something stupid in the heat of the moment.
Now days with this gender line erasure bullshit, we want to try and make people believe that there are no differeces, and that having a partner if the opposite sex doesnt make you both stronger, and that we cant stand to gain or learn anything from it.
Its total bullshit, and i see my wifes girlfriends all the time who instinctively crave an old school relatonship, but because of societies mindset today, they either chase feminine bitch ass men, or they believe theyre not supposed to want that because theyre supposed to be strong, independent women who doesnt need a man to make her feel complete.
Yet everytime they see us and how well we work and how happy we are, they whine about how they' wish they could have what we have'. But they chase feminized bitch men or refuse to be in a relationship because they need to be independent. Its infuriating.