People! You're getting confused. Let me clarify this...
Schomoe or Schmoein'... Is when a normal small GUY wants to hang around, touch, cuddle, have sex, etc with a big MALE bodybuilder.
Shmevick or Shmevicking... Is when a normal or small GUY wants to cuddle, touch or get beat-up by a big FEMALE bodybuilder.
They ain't the same thing, but they sort of are.
Thank you. Carry on fine citizens.