She did not value you or see you for anything other than a fuck. Caring understanding men and women take into account all kinds of situations. The way she treated you during this and afterwards probably is how she has been treated by guys and she is full of hate and vindictiveness. She wanted you to feel worthless and to break your self estem. Just know that you escaped getting involved with a vindictive headcase.
Exactly...Thank you. I ran that scenario of her being hurt and let down through my head before, and figured she is at the very least just emotionally jaded and callused or used to the petty one night stand dynamics, that I am not all that familiar with, like don't eat all day then take 5 shots of whiskey and expect to get a raging hard on..As naive as that sounds I honestly did not know. I only drink very rarely and only socially at that.
I mean don't get me wrong I wanted sex just as much as the next horny guy, but I also craved an ongoing friends with benefits situation. To me "benefits" doesn't just mean sex. It means anything I can't get from a friend that's a dude lol...And she led me to believe there was at least SOME kind of ongoing relationship to be had, even if it was going to the movies and jumping in the sack every weekend...We're both busy people. I was down..
Then to have her pull a complete 180 and just be so harsh was a slap in the face. That hurt.
err..she was a one night stand on Tinder, I think thats blatantly obvious.
Its likely she had no intention at all about hurting his feelings, she wanted sex and he wasnt up to it.
I bet she never gave him a second thought.
But we didn't set up a 1 night stand we set up a friends with benefits situation that would continue if we got along...Which is basically what I'm looking for, not a serious live in girlfriend.
So after getting along very well and having a couple hours of laughs and conversation, we did get intimate and it was hot, we humped, made out, I layed her out and she came in my mouth...It was hot as fuck. The only thing I had zero control over was obviously my blood or something...Maybe it was thin from no food, combined with alcohol...I do not know.
The fact that she was so heartless and wouldn't even attempt to show any compassion or try again after we seemingly had something good, aside from the whiskey dick...That's what was the most painful part.
No different than a bad breakup though...It all just happened over a week of sexting and 1 night worth of relationship instead of some year long relationship or something...I am more or less completely over it. Took maybe a week before it faded completely. But the initial sting was quite strong...
I was initially just warning the OP that Tinder breeds this kind of negative bullshit...Be prepared, because I wasn't in this case. I have dated women from the internet and everything went fine...I assumed I would be fine after a few shots of whiskey, I apparently was not.
If my story helps 1 damn decent man out there avoid the dreaded whiskey dick, I have done my job.
