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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #50 on: October 24, 2014, 11:11:46 PM »
Exactly. If you demonstrate an ill temper with them, they can construe that to mean you are not able to control your temper even when you are dealing with your child. This is not the message you want to send to someone who represents the law and has the ability to ruin you and your son's life.

do u think if my son says i yell at him cause he aint learning wrestling moves would that be considered a parent who cant control his temper?or when hes not concentrating on homework i get mad also,i dont flip out or scream but he sees me get mad and sometimes i yell tho,but i catch myself and start helping him again.
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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #51 on: October 24, 2014, 11:41:37 PM »
just got back from doing afew things this morning and i get home around 930 this morning,kick off my shoes and start dressing for the gym,all of a sudden i hear a chubby knock on my door,u can always tell when a fat broads knocking on your door for some reason.i peak out my window n sure enough its a fat broad with folder in her hand,i hide awhile until she leaves.she leaves paper saying call her ASAP.SO I JUST GOT BACK FROM DOING A NASTY DELT WORKOUT AND i call her,she tells her name and says this is regarding my childs safety.i said say what u gotta say n get it over with cause i gotta do things, she said the neighbor saw me knock my sons tooth our in back yard and my son bleeding,the neighbor forgot to mention we had muay thia pads and i knocked his tooth out when he was holdin pad for me when i was showing him a kick,he wasnt holding it tight enough n the pad knocked his baby tooth out. anyway the fat lady started trying to tell me i shouldnt be doing that so i made a loud sound of a cow n said u cant tell me how to raise my son,i said leave me alone and go after the real sickos out there molesting thier kids and beating them really bad and leave good dads like me alone.before my son started school as was working nights in a gym and would work from midnight till 8am,then come home and watch him all day changing diapers and feeding him,then my wife got home from work at 7pm and she would take over while i slept 3 and a half hrs,did this for years and my son was/is a happy kid,how the hell is some greay ass fat  broad gonna tell me different.i work hard for my son and im not rich but give him everything i can,ill go without things just so he can be happy.fuck those people in social services,they should be after the real bad guys


one thing I hate are neighbors like this. Sneaky morons spying on people, watching your every step, like this twat.

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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #52 on: October 24, 2014, 11:48:24 PM »
do u think if my son says i yell at him cause he aint learning wrestling moves would that be considered a parent who cant control his temper?or when hes not concentrating on homework i get mad also,i dont flip out or scream but he sees me get mad and sometimes i yell tho,but i catch myself and start helping him again.

You have to be yourself. There's lots of advice for parents available. Take it with a grain of salt, not that it is bad advice, but every situation is just a little different.

If you can avoid yelling at your son, do that. It probably doesn't accomplish much anyway. You can simply express that you know he can do better.

If you can learn to encourage your son by complimenting him when he does well at something, you will do more for him than you could ever do criticizing him or worse yelling at him. Let him fall every now and then. We often learn more by making mistakes then we do always getting things right.

I suspect you learned a lot from your past mistakes from what you've posted here.

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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #53 on: October 25, 2014, 12:03:49 AM »
CPS idiot of the century
This video is pretty long but it will definitely piss you off.

what a fucking bitch. She  just had to put hil down on everything he said

"Im overweight but i eat healthy"   - yeah i can see  that you fat discusing piece of shit.
This would not be tolerated in north korea, where cps works for the people not to make themself feel better when they are controlling other peoplws destiny. Powerhungry fucking bitches

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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #54 on: October 25, 2014, 01:03:23 AM »
what a fucking bitch. She  just had to put hil down on everything he said

"Im overweight but i eat healthy"   - yeah i can see  that you fat discusing piece of shit.
This would not be tolerated in north korea, where cps works for the people not to make themself feel better when they are controlling other peoplws destiny. Powerhungry fucking bitches

I would be incapable of dealing with a c u n t like this.

Literally no idea as to how I would deal with this without compromising my position.

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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #55 on: October 25, 2014, 01:27:44 AM »
I would be incapable of dealing with a c u n t like this.

Literally no idea as to how I would deal with this without compromising my position.
the worst thing is that you have to suck up tp them and take there shit without complainong cause they have the piwer to ruin both your and your kids life. If you anger these bitches they will come with full force to "teach you a lesson". Dont know about usa but in sweden the cps can do what they want cause you cant sue a sibgel one of them cause they are not responsible for their actions by the law so no mather what they do they will get away with it

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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #56 on: October 25, 2014, 01:37:50 AM »
the worst thing is that you have to suck up tp them and take there shit without complainong cause they have the piwer to ruin both your and your kids life. If you anger these bitches they will come with full force to "teach you a lesson". Dont know about usa but in sweden the cps can do what they want cause you cant sue a sibgel one of them cause they are not responsible for their actions by the law so no mather what they do they will get away with it

I so so feel for people caught in this trap.

I'd lawyer up to the max and throw money at it and that will always cause them to step back and be cautious, but most people can't do that.

But I currently live in a European country full of socialist twats where I think if you get on the wrong side of any petty bureaucrat you are ruined unless you bribe them.

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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #57 on: October 25, 2014, 01:50:46 AM »
I so so feel for people caught in this trap.

I'd lawyer up to the max and throw money at it and that will always cause them to step back and be cautious, but most people can't do that.

But I currently live in a European country full of socialist twats where I think if you get on the wrong side of any petty bureaucrat you are ruined unless you bribe them.
jupp that is sad.  It dont have to take more then a bitter ex that makes a anonomys phonecall to the cps and they can come and take yournkid and put it in a fosterhome amd ou have to provw that the charges are just bogus. Can take you more then a year to get your kid back..atleasr here

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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #58 on: October 25, 2014, 01:58:20 AM »
sounds like me to the t,i dont mean to yell at him but i get frustrated sometimes.it happens at wrestling practice alot,if he gets takendown i go ape shit and start yelling out load on how he should counter it next time.im gonna start taking it easier on him with the sports tho cause im up his ass hard pushing him to be the best player around,i just want him to be good at whatever he does,the other night i was helping him with homework n he couldnt write a word properly and i lost it on him,he started crying then i felt like shit.

Dude :-\

You blamed your KID for YOU knocking his tooth out. Perhaps the kid isn't strong enough to hold pads for a grown ass man.

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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #59 on: October 25, 2014, 03:11:58 AM »
i hear u bro, i do read the comments but most of the time when people say that they r just joking,i hope they r anyway.been thru the legal system before and spent some time behind bars when i was still a teenager and dont want to go thru that hell again,went in as a teenager and got out at the drinking age of 21. ive learned to get my point across without any TERRORISTIC THREATS being made or any bodily contact so they can nail me with assault,fuck that shit im not getting caught out there again

Of course it was just a joke, glad you see it that way.
I know people being in the orange county jail and what they told me makes you do anything to avoid this.
Wishing you just the best for you and your family.

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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #60 on: October 25, 2014, 03:26:13 AM »
Didn't you also have the FBI call at your house recently as well?  Government are starting to fuck with you!
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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #61 on: October 25, 2014, 09:11:11 AM »
Didn't you also have the FBI call at your house recently as well?  Government are starting to fuck with you!

yea it almosts seems like that doesnt it,i guess since gotti died they r out to get me ::) i was just telling my wife the same stuff u just said about the goverment fucking with me,only thing is im not important enough for them to bother with,what would they want with a guy like me whos just trying to live and let live,i dont bother anyone and am a friendly person. 25 yrs ago i wasnt like that though and i bet they r looking at my criminal past and think im some animal
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Re: had a fat social services lady show up at my house this morning
« Reply #62 on: October 25, 2014, 09:53:41 AM »
just got back from doing afew things this morning and i get home around 930 this morning,kick off my shoes and start dressing for the gym,all of a sudden i hear a chubby knock on my door,u can always tell when a fat broads knocking on your door for some reason.i peak out my window n sure enough its a fat broad with folder in her hand,i hide awhile until she leaves.she leaves paper saying call her ASAP.SO I JUST GOT BACK FROM DOING A NASTY DELT WORKOUT AND i call her,she tells her name and says this is regarding my childs safety.i said say what u gotta say n get it over with cause i gotta do things, she said the neighbor saw me knock my sons tooth our in back yard and my son bleeding,the neighbor forgot to mention we had muay thia pads and i knocked his tooth out when he was holdin pad for me when i was showing him a kick,he wasnt holding it tight enough n the pad knocked his baby tooth out. anyway the fat lady started trying to tell me i shouldnt be doing that so i made a loud sound of a cow n said u cant tell me how to raise my son,i said leave me alone and go after the real sickos out there molesting thier kids and beating them really bad and leave good dads like me alone.before my son started school as was working nights in a gym and would work from midnight till 8am,then come home and watch him all day changing diapers and feeding him,then my wife got home from work at 7pm and she would take over while i slept 3 and a half hrs,did this for years and my son was/is a happy kid,how the hell is some greay ass fat  broad gonna tell me different.i work hard for my son and im not rich but give him everything i can,ill go without things just so he can be happy.fuck those people in social services,they should be after the real bad guys
Next time stay inside your house.