^ This
I think it's an insecurity, a lot of these twinks spend their days watching YouTube videos of ghetto fights and 'Blacks on Blondes' on xvideos...their nightmare is to come home and find Kimbo Slice rutting their wife and get a right hook from him as he leaves.
Another part is due to upbringing, if you're parents were racist and raised you to have "reservations" about certain people and hateful opinions, it is likely the child will grow up to become the same. It's like religion, you can't reason with them.
im gonna be honest here... i grew up in a small town where racism literally didnt exist, there was several black kids who went to my school, they were educated, nice kids... never saw any discrimination.
Its when i went to Houston, and i could literally feel the hatred seething out of them, the constant violence, murders, the having to be on guard 24/7, wife being afraid shes going to get raped anytime we went into target... and we didnt even live in a bad area.
Thats what changed my perception a bit.
These motherfuckers straight hated us just for being white, and you could see in their eyes if they had half a chance or thought i was a bitch theyd have come at me or tried to force my wife out with them. The looks/comments they gave my wife twice made her sob in fear and i took her straight to the car and home.
it was quite eye opening compared to my little liberal, rural washington town.
Now, back in Wa, i dont experience those things anymore so my guard has come back down. But in houston, fuck yeah, the hate just rolled off them. When people hate you so passuonately for nor reason, you tend to get a little edgy.